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Kids go free on fun days out!

In kids on November 16, 2007 at 1:07 am

Theme parks, shopping malls and MacDonalds can all become rather expensive methods of entertaining the kids. And free days out are hard to find these days…

Or are they?

Kids Go Free is a great website which helps you find free (and low cost) days out and activities for the kids. You can search by town, postcode or area for attractions close to you.

This site is becoming invaluable in locating free and cheap days out for the family, especially when it comes to the school holidays! At Kids Go Free, you can find everything from local city farms to museums, walks and historical attractions near you. It also includes directories of “family-friendly” places to eat and stay.

Check it out the next time you’re looking for an inexpensive way to entertain the kids. You could even use this as a bargaining tool so the children will put up with your Christmas shopping over the next few weeks!

Here we go…

In Blogging on November 14, 2007 at 1:10 am

I’ve started the makeover process now, and have uploaded my brand new, fancy template! I hope you like these changes so far!

I know there are loads of links which need to be changed or added, and that most of my previous widgets are gone. In the next few days I’ll tidy things up a bit and soon everything will look and act better than it ever did before!

If you’re looking for a new template for your own Blogger blo, why not check out the selection I created over at Blogger Buster? There are various templates available to suit almost all tastes and preferences, or you could even search through the archives to find a tutorial to help you customize your own…

Glamumous is getting a make-over!

In Uncategorized on November 13, 2007 at 11:49 am

Now that I have a Pagerank (of three, no less!), and have made several blogging friends who have inspired me, I’ve finally decided to give Glamumous a complete overhaul! So in the next few weeks or so, you’ll see many changes here on the Glamumous site, including a brand new makeover and a focus on all things “Glamumous”!

I hope you will like the new look and focus of this blog. I will blog about all these changes as they are happening, and as always appreciate any comments and suggestions you may have on this subject.

High Heeled Shoe Race!

In just for fun on November 11, 2007 at 12:28 am

I bet the contestants had so much fun in this race, which was held in St Petersburg! The winner was awarded $3000 dollars worth of shopping vouchers. I so wish there was such a competition near me, I’d be one of the first to sign up!

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In making money online on November 10, 2007 at 11:12 pm

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Happy Halloween!

In Uncategorized on October 31, 2007 at 9:28 pm


Tonight it’s Halloween, and how I wish my little ones would join in the celebrations!

My son has never wanted to dress up or go “trick or treating”, and now that he’s eleven he’s even more reluctant! Little Angel (bless her) is scared to death of anyone dressed up in a spooky costume! She won’t even go near the Halloween section in the supermarket as she’s frightened that the sinister display will somehow come to life…

Back when I was a kid, I used to plan my costume weeks in advance. I loved Halloween, more for the spirit of the evening than for the sweeties I’d bring home at the end of the night! My friends and I would sit round each other’s houses until our parents made us come home, telling each other spooky stories, trying to be the storyteller who could scare the others the most. This year, I’m resigned to watching (slightly) scary movies with my son, who luckily does seem to have inherited my passion for horror flicks!

Wishing all of you a very happy Halloween!

Free stationary and business cards!

In Uncategorized on October 16, 2007 at 9:27 pm

I’m always on the look-out for bargains, and this really is one of the best I’ve found in recent weeks!

Vistaprint, famed for their 250 free business cards offer, are now offering even more personalized stationary for free! You can choose from desk calendars, holiday cards, postcards and even more. You only need to pay for the postage!

As Christmas is only a couple of months away, this could be a great opportunity to bag a few free stocking fillers for your family and friends. Or you could choose the free business cards for yourself, and use these to help promote your blog!

My husband yesterday received the business cards he ordered to help promote his cell-phone shop, and he’s rather pleased with how good they look. What’s more, as we are now Vistaprint customers, we’ve been emailed even more great offers (free T-shirts, personalized rubber stamps and notecards) which are only available to customers who have completed an order.

Why not try Vistaprint for yourself? As all these offers are free, you really have nothing to lose!

Only one more year to the big three-oh!

In me time on September 30, 2007 at 9:25 pm


Today is my 29th birthday. The kids woke me up with a lovely birthday hug, and Hubby Dearest planned a surprise dinner out for us at a lovely local restaurant which has just opened. What a lovely treat!

I just wish there were more years until I hit the dreaded thirty… Does this mean I can start lying about my age now?

Happy Birthday Little Sis!

In Uncategorized on September 26, 2007 at 7:32 pm


For your eighteenth birthday to my special Sis: I hope all of your wishes come true. May each hour and minute be filled with delight, And your birthday be perfect for you!

With love from all the family xxx

No more hospital (we hope!)

In Uncategorized on September 25, 2007 at 7:28 pm

Today Dad finally was discharged from hospital after all the problems which resulted from his operation. He’s seemed much better for the past couple of weeks, in fact, though the doctors didn’t want to let him leave until they were sure he’s be safe and well at home.

What a lovely birthday treat for my sister and I (as both our birthdays are coming in the next week)!

I’m so glad he’s home, and now I’ll be able to visit much more often as I won’t be struggling to find a sitter to visit in hospital any more :)

Blogger Buster – Helping you build a better blog

In Uncategorized on September 10, 2007 at 1:28 pm

My main blogging venture of late has been my other blog: Blogger Buster. This is where I discuss and tutorial-ize everything I’ve learned about blogging so far.

I’m so proud that I started this blog now! At first it began as an offshoot from Glamumous, since it was here that I first started blogging about blogging with Blogger. When I noticed that my posts about blogging were the most popular here, I quickly realized that I ought to create a blog about this specific subject, rather than clutter this one up with technical info. And it really paid off! These days I get loads of comments, emails and opportunities from Blogger Buster, which really fuels my desire and ambition to blog.

I’ve also developed a love of creating Blogger templates, and have now created quite a few original designs which you can download and use in your own blogger blogs. What’s more, a few people have asked if I’ll create custom designs for them too!

So if you need any helo with your Blogger blog, or are looking for Blogger templates, head on over to my Blogger Buster blog and you’ll be sure to find something to interest you!

Dad in hospital (again)

In Uncategorized on August 30, 2007 at 5:39 pm

As you may have read a few posts back, my Dad had to go to hospital for a lengthy operation on his spine.

I felt really bad about being on holiday while he was still recovering in hospital, though I did my best to keep in touch everyday and by the time we arrived home, Dad was discharged, safe and sound at home.

Or so we thought…

Only a week after being discharged, Dad was back in hospital again. He had an infection in the wound from his operation and had become severely ill again. Later today, Hubby Dearest will be looking after the kids so I can go visit him on the ward. I do hope he’s feeling a bit better today.

It’s been a while…

In Blogging on August 10, 2007 at 6:33 pm

It’s been such a long time since I last updated this blog… Of course, I know I should have updated sooner, to let my few readers know about my lengthy absence from this blog. But what with one thing and another, I simply didn’t have the time or the inclination to do so….

Yes, I’m a terrible mommy blogger! I know this and from now on vow to keep this blog updated, as I should have done all along.

In fact, I have a few bright and wonderful ideas in mind for the (soon-to-be-newly-revamped) Glamumous blog!

So keep your eyes peeled. You could be in for a pleasant surprise!

Discovering the beach…

In Uncategorized on July 22, 2007 at 3:13 pm


Discovering the beach…
Originally uploaded by AmandaFaz.

Its now our second day on holiday and what a lovely day it’s been so far! This is what being on holiday is all about: the kids all playing happily on the sand; sun shining; everyone’s smiling and happy. Hubby dearest has cooked all our meals so far, even a wonderful english breakfast for when i (finally) woke up! I’m really glad we decided to come here now, even though the timing wasn’t so good with dad being in the hospital and all. Lets hope the rest of the week is as enjoyable,:)

A near miss…

In kids, observations on July 20, 2007 at 8:26 pm

Last night, my son came in screaming moments after he’d gone out to play across the road. He’d been so preoccupied with a gift he’d just received from his aunt that he walked out into the road without looking, and…

Well, you can guess what happened.

He was so SO lucky to have come out of it with only bruises and a sore leg! The driver of the van was so concerned and stayed until he was certain my son wasn’t badly injured. I hardly remember what I did, except that I sobbed and insisted on stripping him to his underpants right in the open doorway until I knew for certain nothing was bleeding or broken.

So so lucky. And so unlike my son to cross the road without looking both ways first! I’ve installed road sense into him from the moment he could walk, so I can only believe he must have been too excited about his gift and the impending holidays.

I thank God that he is safe and well. Heaven knows what I’d have done if he’d been seriously hurt, or worse… I’m so glad that the driver had enough sense to drive through our road with caution and safe speed, since there are almost always children playing in the street. If the car had been one of the “boy racers” who speed through the road at night, I certainly wouldn’t be here writing this post now.

Thank God for small mercies, and for keeping our children safe.

Dad in hospital

In issues on July 19, 2007 at 8:36 pm


Today I took Dad to hospital, where at present he’s being prepared to have major surgery on his spine. I hated leaving him there alone and nervous. These days, he seems so weak and sad, and pained. It hurts me to see him this way, so I know the operation he’s having can only make him more comfortable than he is at present.

The picture above was taken when Dad was feeling much healthier, and this is always the way I remember him: seemingly invincible and happy. I do hope he’s well enough for me to visit tomorrow evening during visiting hours. Now I feel so guilty that we’re going on holiday this Saturday, as I won’t be able to visit him after tomorrow, and I’m really anxious about him. If it wasn’t for the kids, I’d have cancelled the holiday and stayed at home instead to be there when he needs his family close by. At least I’ll be in Sheffield when he comes out, to help him at home while everyone else is at work.

Miss you Dad!. All my love and hopes for your swift recovery!

First day at "Big School"!

In kids on July 17, 2007 at 8:20 pm

Today my little man spent an “induction day” at his new comprehensive school. I was so nervous for him! He still seems too young and small to be attending comprehensive!

But he dispelled all my fears when he met me in the car park at 3pm, all smiles and gossip about how much he’d enjoyed the day. He;s already made friends with some of his classmates and feels he knows his way around the maze of corridors, which is no small feat considering the size and scale of the school!

Only six weeks of holiday to go now before he’s there full time! Still, we have to get through a summer of rain before then…

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Glamumous meets the Chariband team!

In charity on July 16, 2007 at 7:55 pm

Well, at least some of the team! At the carnival yesterday I was lucky enough to meet Glenda of the charity Chariband who was working the Chariband stall, selling bags and badges and generally getting the message out about how Chariband supports local charities. The photo above is of Glenda and Little Angel (looking not-so amused because I didn’t want her wading through the muddy field in her white shoes!)

We were able to see a display of the new brightly coloured Charibags before their official launch date next week. They really are cute in the new colours (Little Angel loved the hot pink one!), and Glenda explained that each small bag can hold five large shoppers folded flat, so they’re great for storing your shopping bags until they’re needed.

Next Friday the 27th of July, the Lord Mayor of Sheffield will be officially launching the new Charibag range at Crystal Peaks in Sheffield. Much as I would love to go, I’m afraid we can’t be there as we’ll be in (hopefully) sunny Lincolnshire on our holidays… However, I do hope Glenda will email me some pictures of the event so I can post about it here.

Chariband hope to raise £10,000 for the South Yorkshire Flood Disaster Relief Fund from the sale of Charibags. You can purchase Charibags online from the Chariband website.

EDIT: Some more Charibag promotions have been confirmed for the near future:
  • Sheffield United F.C. Open Day – Bramhall Lane, Sheffield on Sunday the 29th of July 10am-3pm
  • Flood Benefit Gig, Little Man Tate – The Plug, Sheffield, on Saturday the 4th of August.
  • Floodstock Charity Weekend – The Leadmill, Sheffield on Saturday the 11th and Sunday the 12th of August.

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A day at the carnival

In just for fun on July 14, 2007 at 7:45 pm

Despite today being so gloomy and overcast, I took the kids to Stannington Carnival for a much deserved day out. Here’s some of the pictures I took with my cameraphone (apologies for the poor quality!):

We’ve been going to this carnival for the past few years now, and I really love the traditional feel of this one. We found an old gypsy caravan, traditional fudge seller, a tombola and loads more. And we didn’t have to spend a fortune either! Everything was reasonably priced, even the food stalls. Except for the bouncy castle, which we certainly won’t be going on next year!

It’s a pity so many of these summer fayre’s we like to attend have been cancelled this year because of the terrible weather we’ve been having. Still, we always find a way to have fun!

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Kids summer reading challenge!

In freebies, just for fun, kids on July 10, 2007 at 4:25 pm

Last year, my son had great fun by being involved in the national reading challenge at the library; each week he read a book borrowed from the library (six in total) for which he achieved a certificate and medallion. Stickers and pencils also provided a great incentive for him to keep on reading.

So we were rather pleased to discover that a new reading challenge has been set for this summer’s school holidays: The Big Wild Read.

The challenge is environmentally themed, encouraging kids to play a bigger part in helping protect and conserve our planet by thinking about the things we do and how it affects planet Earth. They are given a folder to help record their progress, and each time they read a book they are given scratch and sniff stickers to decorate it, featuring useful information about conservation and wildlife. What’s more, they also receive “tree tokens” which will be translated into new trees thanks to the Woodland Trust’s Trees for All campaign.

Not only is this a great incentive for youngsters to be reading over the summer, but a way to help them develop an understanding of the environment, and what can be done to protect it.

The kids are all going to be taking part in this challenge this summer, and have even planned the books they’ll be reading next week when we go on holiday! I just know they’re going to be thrilled when they learn that their efforts have also helped plant new trees too!

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Free books for babies

In freebies, just for fun, kids on July 9, 2007 at 4:44 pm

When my little Angel was quite young, we were given a Bookstart token for her to exchange for a pack at the library, which included some free books, a children’s library card and a lovely bag to put them all in. This has been well loved, as my daughter now adores books and is developing quite a collection (she takes after her mum!). Yet I didn’t think much more about the Bookstart scheme until recently.

After having a look at the Bookstart website, I realised that the scheme doesn’t end with that first free pack! Children are also presented with Bookstart+ packs as toddlers, and then a treasure chest when ages 3-4, both of which include free book tokens! Furthermore, there is a scheme run by libraries called “The Book Crawl”, which encourages young children to read by offering certificates and free books when each card is filled with stamps.
This is such a lovely idea to help encourage young children to develop a love of reading. I only wish I’d read about this sooner.
To find out more about the Bookstart scheme, take a look at the website or ask at your local library. I’m sure your little angels will love it as much as mine does!

We’re all going on a…

In just for fun on July 7, 2007 at 4:57 pm

Hubby Dearest booked our summer holiday today: we’re spending a week in a luxury caravan on the Lincolnshire coast, close to the beach. It may not seem like the ideal holiday solution, but believe me this will be a welcome break for us all.

My stepchildren will be coming too, which is great as we’ll not be worried about them being bored! I only hope that the weather improves for our holiday at least: it seems to have rained non-stop for the past eight weeks. Some even say that it’s rained ever since Rhianna’s Umbrella has been number one in the British pop charts…

But being British, we are optimistic, and always have a back-up plan for days when the weather is too bad to play out. In this case, Gameboys, paper and pens should do the trick. Oh yes, and wellingtons too…

We set off a week on Saturday, so from then I’ll be posting via mobile phone to keep you up to date on what we’re getting up to. While I am slightly disappointed that we can’t get to Tunisia this summer, I’m still looking forward to spending some quality time with Hubby and the kids. I’m sure we’ll have a great time, whatever the weather.

Post cards by email coming soon!

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Scandalous airline prices in the school holidays!

In issues on July 6, 2007 at 5:17 pm


We were hoping to be able to spend our summer holidays in Tunisia this year, staying in our “holiday home” with all the kids (as my stepchildren haven’t been with us for a couple of years now). But when we saw the prices for the flights, we were absolutely shocked! For a flight only from Manchester to Monastir during the summer holidays, the price is TRIPLE that which my husband paid to go last month, and double that of going the week before (thus missing a week of school).

Can you believe this???

I had hoped to take a photo of the websites we’d looked at in order to demonstrate these prices to you, but unfortunately it seems there are no longer flights available to Tunisia during the summer holidays (if I can get these up in the future, I will edit this post to include them).

Honestly, I am shocked that airlines can do this. I wouldn’t want to take the children out of school to go on holiday, as they’d miss too much of their education. But the difference in cost for us is well over £1000 for the flights. Money which we would have wanted for spending money while we were there.

Travel-Rants.com includes a post about this, demonstrating an example of the rise in costs during the summer holidays most parents face. It’s awful that holiday operators manage to get away with this,. Travel-rants suggests we band together to put pressure on MP’s and airlines in the hope of changing this situation.

Unfortunately, we’ll have to forgo Tunisia this summer. I am rather disappointed, as I was looking forward to seeing my Tunisian sisters (in law) again, and spending time away from this awful weather in the sun. I guess we’ll have to look a little closer to home for something much cheaper instead. Either that, or we’ll go in the Autumn half term instead, though from what I’ve seen so far, the costs will rise slightly that week too…

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Happy Birthday!

In kids on July 5, 2007 at 4:38 pm

To my little man, who’s eleven today:

Your Dad and I wish you a Happy Birthday!

We have many surprises in store for you:

Lots of cards and special presents, and a birthday cake too!

Eleven years passed, and my you have grown!

With your cheeky grin and a style all your own;

You learn and develop, doing all that you can

To prove to the world that you’re now a young man.

You’re no longer my baby, but I still hold you dear;

My love for my son can only grow with each year.

And so I wrote this verse, especially for you:

Happy Birthday, Little Man! May all your dreams come true!

Love from Mummy!

Facing my fears…

In me time on July 5, 2007 at 12:10 am

Today we went shopping for my little man’s birthday presents. Since much of Meadowhall is still closed due to the recent floods, it was rather busy and I had to park in the multi storey. You may be wondering why this is such a big deal for me? Well, unfortunately I suffer from vertigo. Such an irrational fear, I’m sure you’ll agree! But each ramp we climbed to find the empty spaces my heart beat faster, my palms became more sweaty… By the time we found a space on the roof, I almost felt sick!

I wasn’t always so afraid of heights though. In my youth, I was always the one wanting to go on the highest roller coaster, climb trees, fly in planes… Vertigo seemed to suddenly creep up on me, and I didn’t realise it until one Christmas when my little man wanted me to take him up a fairground slide (the type which goes round and round a small tower). When we reached the top, I almost collapsed with fear. I felt dizzy and strangely frightened, while my son happily climbed up and slid all the way down alone. He asked me then, as my little Angel did today: “Why are you so scared, mummy?”

So I tried to do a brave thing, and walked to the edge of the car park to take the photograph of the city you see above. Just to show my daughter that there really is nothing to be afraid of!

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Charibag helps support the Sheffield Lord Mayor’s Flood Appeal Fund

In charity on July 3, 2007 at 8:38 pm

Here in South Yorkshire so many families have been devastated by recent floods. Many are still homeless as their homes are uninhabitable.

Chariband, who raise funds for a number of charities in this region, will be donating 25p of the sale of each Charibag sold to the Lord Mayor’s Flood Appeal funds. This fund will be used to help local flood victims rebuild their lives and homes after this terrible event.

A wide range of bags are available, from reusable shoppers in many colours, to student bags and even child school bags. A new range will also be released on Friday 27th of July at Crystal Peaks shopping centre in Sheffield. Charibags are available to purchase online, and cost as little as £2!


Why not head on over to Chariband now to see the full range? Not only will you be getting a great new bag, you’ll be helping a very worthy cause!

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The Five Questions Meme

In me time on July 2, 2007 at 4:40 pm

Over at Rocks in my Dryer, Shannon has posted her “5 question” meme, which I thought would be fun to answer here. So, here are my questions and answers, some of which were a little tricky to answer (especially with the kids arguing in the background!) but here goes:

If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Um, I’d hate to have to eat only one food forever! That would be so boring, not to mention unhealthy! But if I have to choose, it would be “Lift”: it’s a Tunisian dish made with meat, lots of spinach, garlic, tomatoes and chickpeas. Can I still have some French bread to go with that..?

What’s the most nerve-racking “close call” you’ve ever had?

This would probably have to be an incident which happened some years ago when my little man was still a toddler. We’d just moved into a new flat after some troubles, and were both exhausted. Since I didn’t have a cot or proper bed for my little man to sleep in, I tucked him up in my double bed and went to watch some TV in the lounge. I was so so tired that I fell asleep right there.

When I woke up a few hours later, I went to check on my son. But he wasn’t there. I called his name over and over, and when he didn’t answer I began to panic: it was a new place for both of us, and I was worried that he’d done himself a mischief. Then I noticed the front door was slightly ajar. I ran out onto the landing and started screaming for him, running around the block like a madwoman thinking someone had kidnapped my son. Eventually, I went back inside to call the police when I noticed a lump in the bed covers. Upon checking it out, I realised my little man was just huddled beneath, and he’d been there all along! I felt like such a fool!

Name five features your ultimate dream house would have.

The dream house we’d build when we win the lottery? Oh yes, I’ve already thought this one through! We’d have:

  1. A bedroom for each member of our family, plus two guest rooms, each with their own en-suite bathroom.
  2. A huge library with a domed glass roof and shelves ceiling to floor.
  3. A basement “cinema”
  4. A wonderful huge garden including a labyrinth and secret “wild” area.
  5. Staff to cook, clean and do the gardening

Perhaps too much to hope for, but I can dream…

Who has been the most influential non-relative in your life?

It’s hard to define just one, so I’ll have to make three: my English teacher at school, who I will always remember fondly; my tutor at college, who taught me to think for myself academically, and my good friend “C”, who despite being my senior has taught me much about life and loyalty. If I could pick the most influential family member, it would have to be Dad!

What one non-physical feature would you most like to change about yourself?

Sometimes it would nice to be more selfish! I’m often told that I’m too apologetic, and always put others before myself, no matter what my feelings may be.

If you want to answer this meme yourself, head on over to Shannon’s post and leave your link in her comments. Thanks for reading my answers!

Car Boot Sale!

In house and home, just for fun, kids on June 30, 2007 at 1:07 pm

Despite the weather, we had a really great morning at a local car boot sale! It was just a small, simple one in the car park of our local community centre, but we bagged some great bargains, including this hat and coat for my little Angel:

They’re pure wool, absolutely gorgeous! And the best thing was that they were only 20p, for the set! Can you believe that?

I also found some bargain books: The Cat in the Hat (and also his return), and Sarah Waters’ Night watch in hardback for me, which were only 10p each. We went with a pocketful of change and only spend about £3 in all, though we all came back happy!

When the weather is warmer, we sometimes go to the major car boot sales out in the country, which can take hours to walk around! These sales are such a good place for bargain buys: we’ve built up a huge collection of Disney videos this way as they’re usually around 50p each (whereas new ones are upwards of £10 in the shops), and always look out for mirrors, beautiful vases, fittings and other household stuff that we can buy for next to nothing.

If you ever fancy trying a car boot sale yourself, here’s a few tips to get the most out of it:

  • Wear old shoes and trousers: car boot sales can be very muddy!
  • Have lots of loose change. When things cost 10p, you don’t want to ask for change from a £20 note! Also, it’s easier to barter when you have the right money!
  • Barter for everything! There are no fixed prices at car boot sales, and sellers almost always tell you a price higher than they will accept (even if it is already cheap!)
  • Take carrier bags, as sellers often run out!
  • Go very early if you want to find the best sales. Later in the day, such treasures will have already been snapped up!
  • Go quite late if you are looking for cheap bargains: as sellers are packing up, they are much more likely to sell you that beautiful green glass vase for 20p when their earlier asking price was £2!
  • Similarly, going on a day when the weather’s bad will help you bag the bargains, as sellers just want to get rid of their stuff and go home!

Car boot sales are great for buying kids toys too. Last year, money was a bit short so we went to the sales just before the kids birthdays and found loads of great stuff they wanted which we otherwise couldn’t afford. Clothes in every shape, size and design are found in plenty, so if you don’t mind laundering second-hand clothes, there are designer bargains galore.

If you want to find listings of car boot sales in your ares, try CarBootCalendar.com which features all major UK car boot sales, flea markets and antiques fairs. Friday Ads also have regular listings of such sales and you can narrow your search by postcode.

An alternative, If you prefer to keep your boots clean, is to visit visit ibootsale from the comfort of your own home! You can even list items for free if there are things lying about at home that you want to get rid of.

Do let me know if you’re a lover of car boot sales too by leaving your comments below. And if you’re a CBS virgin, why not go out and visit one with the kids? It’s a very cheap day out!

My dyskaryosis treatment

In health, me time on June 29, 2007 at 3:51 pm

A while back, a routine smear showed that I had abnormal cells: a pre-cancerous condition called dyskaryosis. I panicked at first, as I’m sure many women do when their smear results show abnormalities. After all, we don’t often discuss our private female parts!

I was more than relieved to learn that dyskaryosis is not cancer, merely a condition which could become cancerous if left untreated for a number of years. Ten to fifteen years, as the doctors explained, though of course I wasn’t taking any chances! I was referred to the hospital for a colposcopy (a detailed examination of the cervix) in order to find the most appropriate course of treatment. For me, this meant removing the affected cells using a treatment called diathermic loop: where heat is passed through a loop-type instrument to cut away the bad parts and cauterise the skin to prevent bleeding and infection.

It may sound painful, but believe me it wasn’t! I had my treatment yesterday, and I wonder now why I’d got so worked up about the treatment in the first place! After the initial consultation and explanations, the treatment itself only lasted a matter of minutes and I barely felt a thing. Just a little aching and light headedness. I still ache a little now, and was told to expect some bleeding for the next few weeks until all is healed. No tampons, bubble bath or sex for a whole month, but this is a small price to pay for peace of mind, I’m sure!

For the next few years, I’ll need smears more regularly than usual, just to make sure the problem doesn’t return. And if it does, early detection will ensure it is most easily treated!

Most instances of cervical cancer occur because women have “slipped through the net” and haven’t been screened as regularly as they could be. So, if it’s been a long time since your last smear, please do yourself a favor and have one done. I know they’re not pleasant and most uncomfortable, but at the end of the day, I’m sure you’d prefer to know you are healthy, or discover a small problem which can be easily treated, than leave it too long and discover the worst!

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The great Sheffield flood…

In issues on June 27, 2007 at 3:32 pm

This video may give you an idea of the great floods we have been experiencing here in Sheffield. My family and I have all been very lucky: our homes and businesses have escaped most of the flood damage and danger. For those whose homes have been wrecked by the bursting rivers, and those families tragically devastated by death and injury, I offer my heartfelt prayers.

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Tasty Tuesdays: Quick Kiddie Carbonara

In Uncategorized on June 26, 2007 at 5:27 pm

Continuing my Tasty Tuesdays series of quick, simple dishes, I’d like to present you with a really easy recipe my kids love to eat: Quick Kiddie Carbonara. Okay, so it isn’t strictly carbonara since it doesn’t involve making any tricky sauces, but it’s fast, fun and good for them. So why not give it a try?

Here’s what you’ll need to serve four hungry people (halve these amounts of you’re only cooking for two):

  • A packet of spaghetti (or your preferred pasta)
  • Four rashers of lean bacon (we use turkey bacon instead) chopped into bite sized pieces.
  • A cup of grated cheddar cheese
  • 4 tablespoons of mayonnaise
  • A knob of butter (or a drizzle of olive oil)
  • Salt and pepper to taste

And here’s how to make it:

  1. Boil your pasta as directed (the time will change depending on the type of pasta used)
  2. Fry the bacon in just a little oil until they are cooked. You could grill them, but be sure not to make them too crispy!
  3. When the pasta is cooked, rinse with hot water from the kettle, drain and transfer to a big bowl.
  4. Add a knob of butter (or a drizzle of olive oil), the mayonnaise and chopped bacon rashers. Mix well. Add a little salt and pepper to taste. You could always omit this step for the kids, and season only the grown-ups portions instead!
  5. Share between four bowls and sprinkle with the grated cheese. Enjoy!

You could make varieties of this using different ingredients instead of the bacon. We’ve tried and tested canned tuna and cooked chicken breast, which are also heartily enjoyed in this recipe. The kids love to help me cook this as it’s simple enough for them to do a lot of the preparation themselves!

Next week, I’ll be posting a recipe for us parents to enjoy. In the meantime, why not have a look at previous Tasty Tuesday recipes for more simple recipe ideas?

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Things to help you feel better on a rainy day

In Uncategorized on June 25, 2007 at 5:27 pm


Here in Sheffield we’ve had the worst rainfall in many years. We’ve been issued severe flood warnings, rivers have burst their banks, traffic is at a standstill, and several people have been hospitalised due to the floods.

But it’s not all doom and gloom! Safe at home we’ve been devising a list of things to do on a rainy day, to help you and your little ones feel much more cheerful amidst the rainclouds!

Here’s what we’ve come up with so far:

  • Find an old shoe box and fill it with bits and pieces from around the house (scraps of paper, magazine cuttings, unused fabric, feathers, stickers, etc.). Let the kids decorate the box with all the bits and pieces you’ve found. This can become your “rainy day box”!
  • Get dressed up in all your waterproofs and wellingtons, then have fun splashing around in puddles!
  • Venture into the back garden to find snails. The kids can have great fun seeing how many snails they can find, comparing the shells etc.
  • Find some pictures or postcards of warm sunny locations and make a collage.
  • Then, the kids could get dressed up in summery clothes and pretend they are on holiday instead!
  • Create a rain-themed karaoke with any “rainy day” songs you can find (eg: “singing in the rain”, “When it’s raining it’s raining”, “Sunshine on a rainy day”). Or just sing nursery rhymes about the rain instead (Mama Lisa has some great ones here)

We’ve stuck this list to the inside of our “rainy day box” with room to add more as we think of them. Then next time it rains, we can be sure the kids won’t be bored!

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Introducing Blogger Buster

In Blogging, custom blogger on June 24, 2007 at 5:32 pm

I love blogging, and since I’ve been asked so many questions about the customisations I made to this blog, I decided to start another: Blogger Buster!

My new blog is solely about blogging, featuring posts about customisations, domains, SEO, widgets and loads of other blogging inspired posts. I’m no expert at blogging, but I do like to help others out when I can, so my posts are about things that I’ve tried and successfully accomplished myself.

You can see my new blog here:

Please let me know what you think, or if there’s a specific blogging question you’d like me to try and answer in a post!

I wish he’d thought of that in the first place!

In house and home, keeping him happy on June 23, 2007 at 5:00 pm

I’d almost finished decorating the bathroom. Three weeks, it has taken me to get most things done, since I only had an hour or two at a time, when Little Angel wasn’t around to put hand prints all over my newly painted walls. All that was left was putting up the waterproof paper on the back wall.

Then Hubby Dearest had a brainwave: “I think we should move the sink and the radiator around.” Yes, it was a good idea: the sink was underneath the window, so we couldn’t have a mirror on place for shaving/make-up and the like. Great, fair enough. Except this means that I have to redo most of the painting again, once the walls have been re plastered!!

And he did it, which surprised me immensely since we’re also creating a “patio” on the back garden, and I didn’t think he could manage two major household projects at once! So now I’m almost back to where I started, and need to do all the painting again. At least the layout looks miles better than it did! What’s more, Hubby has finally become interested in the finished look: he’s chosen some bathroom cabinets and fittings for when it’s all complete, and has even bought the floor covering I had my eye on!

Thanks, darling! I do love you, you know :)

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Can your household become 90% greener?

In house and home, issues, observations on June 22, 2007 at 1:51 pm

Over at Simple Living, Miranda, Sharon and other participants have set themselves a very honourable task: to cut their personal carbon emissions by 90% of that of the average American: the approximate amount people in the rich world need to reduce by in order to avoid the worst effects of global warming.

Anyone can join in this task by linking to the Simple Living blog or commenting on their posts. Their blog features loads of great energy saving tips which not only help save the environment but will also drastically cut down on household and utility bills too! What a great idea!

The goal is to cut down to 90% of the average American’s emissions over the course of a year (or your country’s average emissions if you don’t live in the US). What with our family’s reduction on amenities and such lately, I do believe that we’re already below the UK average, though I’ll certainly be reading through Simple Living’s advice to see what else we can do to reduce even more. It would certainly be a difficult feat for us to reduce by 90%, but as the video shows, there are a great many ways we can help protect the environment simply by making different choices about the way we live our lives.

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My Blogging Story!

In Blogging, me time on June 21, 2007 at 11:25 pm

Chili over at Don’t Try This At Home, has passed out an invitation to all bloggers to write their own blogging story. And lately, blogging is something I love to talk about at every opportunity, so I just couldn’t resist writing my own! The story is based on a series of questions about how you began blogging, your motivations and readership. Once you’ve read this, why not hop on over to read Chili’s post and see what others have to say too? I’ve found some really great reads from her Mr. Linky…

Anyway, here is my own blogging story:

How did you start blogging?

I “discovered” blogging a little over three years ago, when researching material for a creative writing project. It was Blogger’s caption: “Push button publishing” which inspired me to read more. Then I realised that I could actually write for the web, that anyone could (and perhaps would) read what I wrote. And comment on it. And link back to me! In effect, discovering Blogger was like opening a can of worms: I immediately became addicted, started my account, and created my first blog: The Urban Kunoichi.

After a little while, I realised there was much more to blogging than a Blogspot could (then) currently offer, and so I migrated over to WordPress, and bought my own domain. Now, of course, Blogger is a much better blog hosting company, which is why my two new blogs are hosted over here. More about that later…

Did you intend to be a blog w/a big following? If so, how did you go about it?

To answer this, I’d have to say that I hoped to be a blog with a reasonable following, but in no way expected that I would be. In fact it took quite a long time to get a regular readership, and even now, my oldest blog doesn’t have too many subscribers, though it does receive quite a few hits from search engines.

In regard to my two newer blogs: Glamumous! and Blogger Buster, then the answer is “yes”: I did set up these blogs to attract a readership. These days I know a little more about blogging, web design, SEO and such, so I’ve implemented some tactics such as joining blogging communities, posting daily, and giving a lot of link love to other blogs I admire.

I want to write posts that people want to read! This is especially true of my Blogger Buster blog, which is all about blogging, and my way of sharing the knowledge in this subject with others who might need it. I love to help others out, and blogging is my favorite hobby!

What do you hope to achieve or accomplish with your blog? Have you been successful? If not, do you have a plan to achieve those goals?

My goals for my old blog were simply to write on subjects I enjoyed writing about, and to have my posts read. I think I achieved this to the extent I was willing to push it at the time.

With Glamumous, my plans were somewhat different: this blog is more personal: it’s about being a wife and mother, keeping house and family and staying sane. As well as attracting a readership, I wanted to have an outlet for my feelings at a time when I was feeling somewhat confused about what I wanted from life. Although I’ll never talk in my blog about those issues which concerned me as I started to write, I do honestly feel that writing Glamumous has helped me feel better about myself and change the things that needed it.

Blogger Buster can be seen as an offshoot of Glamumous: after a few of my Custom Blogger posts attracted some attention, I began to realise that writing a blog about blogging would be a great way to attract a readership, and a way to help others by sharing information about the tips and tricks which have helped me. Blogger Buster is a very new blog, and only time will tell if I am successful at achieving my goals!

Has the focus of your blog changed since you started blogging? How?

The answer above may well answer most of that question! But there is one more thing I may as well add. A few weeks ago, I discovered Dooce (you know, the blogger who became infamous when she was sacked for blogging about her colleagues?), and something I read in her “about” section really caught my attention: her blog generates enough from advertising to support her and her family! They don’t have to go out to work, and can still pay all the bills, keep a beautiful house, maintain a car and probably go on holiday too!

I know it’s about as likely that I’ll ever be able to do that as winning the lottery! Yet it gave me hope that if my blogs become popular, my ads may pay off a little bit so I might be able to afford the odd weekend away, or a pair of shoes I don’t actually need!

In the meantime, I know I’ll need to put in a lot of hard work!

What do you know now that you wish you’d known when you started?

Put lots of link love out there; read other people’s blog’s regularly and comment on them; write for your readers if you want them to come back. And if you ever plan on having a custom domain for your blog, do it early on! Otherwise you’ll have to try and let all your readers/blog rings/directories/etc know your new blog address, and it can be a real drag!

Do you make money with your blog?

At the moment, I make pocket change from the Google ads on my oldest blog (just about enough to cover the hosting fees!), but as yet I haven’t made anything from Glamumous and Blogger Buster. I would like to though, and have already put the ads in place because I wouldn’t want them to “suddenly” appear!

I do try to make the ads relevant to my readers though! On Glamumous, you’ll find more affiliate links, since the Google ones didn’t match up to my expectations (probably because it’s still so new!), and I’m still working on those at Blogger Buster. After all the hard work and effort I put into my blogs, I don’t think it’s a sell out to include ads; if they even pay enough to cover their domain registrations and a Starbucks coffee every now and again, I’ll be a very happy bunny!

Does your immediate or extended family know about your blog? If so, do they read it? If not, why?

Hmm, tricky question. My sister and Dad know about my blog and sometimes read it. Hubby Dearest knows I run websites (as he explains it), but doesn’t really know much about blogs or blogging. He doesn’t seem particularly interested in reading it, probably because he doesn’t spend a fraction of the time online that I do! One thing I ensure each time I post is that no-one (including myself) would ever be offended or troubled by what I write, either now or at any time in the future.

Unfortunately, I don’t have any friends or family who blog (though I am still trying to remedy this!). I would like people I know to be more interested in blogs, especially mine of course, but it seems that “blogging” isn’t yet a growing trend in my social circles.

What two pieces of advice would you give to a new blogger?

  1. Write about the things you enjoy writing about, be it your family, your favorite hobby or your latest business venture! If you enjoy your subject, you are much more likely to stick at it, write better posts and attract a readership through your passionate writing!
  2. Don’t expect to be a success straight away! For a blog to become popular, it needs lots of hard work, time and effort before a readership will arrive! Don’t be put off if it takes months or even longer for your blog to attract subscribers! It took me a long time and many mistakes to realise this.

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my blogging story. If you want to join in with the carnival and write your own, head over to Chili’s blog to read more about it, and submit your post to her Mr. Linky!

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Living room or lounge: what’s yours?

In house and home, kids on June 21, 2007 at 12:06 pm

I have to ask this, as it’s starting to become something of an issue in our house: does your home have a “living room” (a communal area complete with a scattering of toys and kiddie stuff) or a “lounge” (mum and dad only; kids are virtually banned; the room is tidy).

We don’t have much of a choice here at home as our house has only two bedrooms: a smaller one for the boys (my son and stepson) where they keep their computer games, toys, books and all, then the “master bedroom” (I hesitate to call it such!), where Hubby Dearest and I sleep, keep our stuff, and also share with Little Angel and my step-daughter. There is no space in either room for Little Angels huge chest full of toys, her amazing collection of beloved cuddly things, her rocking horse or anything else.

This all lives in our “living room” instead.

I don’t mind this too much while Little angel is young, but Hubby dearest really hates this setup. He wants the room where our sofa lives to become the “lounge”: no kids, no toys. A place where we can relax at the end of the day and not have to thoroughly tidy up beforehand! He complains that guests must think we have a messy house because of the toys in there. I assure him that people understand: after all, we have children, and children play!

Eventually, we both agree that the bathroom will migrate to the lower portion of our bedroom, and the old one will become the (perhaps a little small) girls room. And there will live the toys, the cuddlys and all their other stuff. But for this, we have to wait: we’re still renting from the council, and until we either buy this house or persuade them to do the work for us, we have to live in this scenario.

I would really like to know how you other mums and dads organise your living space: do you have toys in the living room, or are they relegated to the bedroom? Perhaps you’re lucky enough to have a playroom, where the kids can play without fear of making a mess? Please leave your comments below. Any suggestions for creating a temporary harmony amidst these toys would be much appreciated!

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We did it! Finally, the potty comes into action!

In kids on June 20, 2007 at 11:02 am

I’m SO thrilled! My little Angel has used her potty for the first time this morning. And not just a pee-pee, but a poopy too!

We’ve been trying for weeks to get her interested (and willing) to use the potty, and until today it just hasn’t worked. She’d sit for ages on the potty while we read books, played games and such, yet as soon as she realised she needed to go, she’d scream for a nappy to be put on, and refused point blank to pee where we wanted! Wet pants didn’t work; neither did “going to the toilet with mum”.

So I was so surprised when she came to tell me there was poopy in the potty, especially as she’d taken off her own nappy and purposefully sat down!

What happened? Why did she suddenly change her mind? I really don’t know, and wish I did so I could help other mummies in the same position. After lots and lots of praise I only hope she’ll do the same next time. We’re a long way off from establishing the habit yet, I know. But what a breakthrough!

Hooray!!

Tasty Tuesdays: Tunisian Koucha

In tasty tuesdays on June 19, 2007 at 4:26 pm

This is one of the easiest Tunisian dishes to make. At least, it is the way I make it; it’s one of Hubby Dearest’s favorite meals and since he’s never complained, it must be good. Especially when you consider he was once head chef in a leading hotel…

(Please note; there is no image of this dish yet as I haven’t cooked this for a little while. I’ll post an image as soon as I can get one!)

Koucha is traditionally baby lamb slow baked in a stoneware oven with rosemary and other herbs. But don’t worry: in this recipe we wont be attempting anything nearly so complicated! My version of Koucha is made with small pieces of lamb shoulder, potatoes, onions and a tomato sauce instead, baked in the oven until all the flavours blend; the meat is cooked and it tastes delicious. Want to know how it can be made quickly and easily? Read on…

Here’s what you’ll need to make enough for four people:

  • Four pieces of lamb shoulder (enough for a portion). Ask your butcher to chop a shoulder for you if you can’t find it already portioned.
  • A clove or two of garlic
  • Olive oil
  • One can of tinned tomatoes
  • Tomato puree
  • 2 Large or four small potatoes
  • 2 Medium onions
  • Salt and pepper
  • A handful of fresh rosemary (or about 1 heaped teaspoon of dried rosemary)
  • Four small earthenware dishes (or small oven proof casserole dishes)

And here’s how to make it:

  1. Preheat your oven to 190 degrees Celsius.
  2. Rub the lamb portions with a clove of garlic. Place in the dishes, drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle on chopped rosemary, salt and black pepper, and a little chili powder (depending on your taste).
  3. Peel the potatoes and halve; rinse then add a portion to each dish. Peel the onions, halve and add half an onion to each portion.
  4. Add a tablespoon of tomato puree and a heaped tablespoon of chopped tomatoes, plus a little of the juice. Cover with aluminium foil and cook in the oven for about an hour, until the lamb is cooked and the potatoes are soft.
  5. Before serving, give the dishes a little shake to help blend the tomatoey sauce, and turn out onto plates. Garnish with chopped spring onions and fresh parsley if desired, and serve with crusty bread (this dish is traditionally eaten with bread instead of knives and forks!)
  6. Enjoy!

I hope you like this recipe too! This will be the last Tunisian recipe (for now), but I will continue this feature of easy meal ideas every Tuesday.

For more Tunisian recipes, try these earlier posts:

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To my Little Angel on your first day of nursery

In kids, me time on June 19, 2007 at 12:31 pm

To my Little Angel,

This morning you were so excited: it’s your first day of nursery school, and you just couldn’t wait to go and play with the yellow teapot and paint Daddy a picture of a pussycat! Since we went for a brief visit last week, you haven’t stopped talking about “nursery school” to anyone who would listen: even strangers we pass in the street! You’re 28 months old now and are so grown up. A little girl, and not my little baby anymore, though you always will be in my heart.

I wanted you to pose for a photo as we went in the nursery gates, yet all you wanted to do was get inside and play. I was quite nervous for you: after all, this was the first time I’d ever left you in someone else’s’ care, except for the odd occasion when Daddy and I have been out in the evening when your Auntie would stay and read stories for you and your brother until you both fell asleep! Daddy was even more nervous than me: his little princess was venturing out into the world for the first time. No wonder he spoiled you with a new bag, clothes, lunchboxes and a huge basket of fruit to share with your friends!

When we went inside, you immediately ran over to the little play kitchen to look for the teapot you remembered from the last session. At first you ignored me when I asked for a kiss to say goodbye. Until you realised that the teapot was nowhere to be seen and needed me to find it for you! Straight away you began to make friends, handing out the plastic cups and spoons for the tea party you must have been planning all week. It was so good to watch you interact with the other children: how generous and friendly you were; all smiles and excitement, though perhaps a little shy to talk much at first.

When it came time for me to say goodbye, you didn’t want to wave or even acknowledge that I was leaving. “It’s probably a good thing” the teachers said as I made my exit with tears in my eyes. Though I didn’t want you to be upset, I really wanted to feel that you’d miss me. Since the day you were born, I’ve always been your playmate; your comfort giver, the one you go to sleep with each night. And though I know you’re growing up now, I don’t ever want that feeling of being needed to go away.

I came to collect you a few minutes before the session ended, so you wouldn’t feel left out if you saw other mummies leaving with their children first. When I entered the classroom, you didn’t notice me straight away, and I stood and watched for a few moments as you finished your doodling, concentrating so hard on where the lines went as though it meant so much to you! When you finally noticed I was there, you dropped your pen and ran right over to give me a great big lovely hug that moved me so much with your affection, especially as you sobbed slightly, having seemed to miss me so much!

“She cried a little bit when she realised you were gone,” explained the teacher. “But not much! She’s played really well with all the other children.” Exactly what I’d expected, if I’m honest. My little Angel is such a caring and affectionate little love that I can’t imagine her being aggressive, or even rude.
I’m so glad that you had a good time at nursery school. On the way home, you told me all about the games you played, the “painting-drawing”, the “dress up” and “kickey ball” in the yard.

“Do you want to go again next week?” I asked, as she sat in the back seat, eyes drooping with utter tiredness.

“Um,” she replied smiling. “I go to nursery school again!”

A blog widget for Mums to be!

In Blogging, custom blogger, freebies, kids on June 19, 2007 at 12:24 pm

I found this gorgeous little widget at WidgetBox.com which I just had to share with you:

The countdown on this one isn’t for me, but shows the due date for my friend who’s recently discovered she’s expecting after a long period of infidelity. I just know she’ll love it when she sees it!

To get your own free baby countdown timer which is fully customisable, visit this link:

http://www.widgetbox.com/widget/baby-ticker

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Are you too old to hear this? Try the “Silent Ringtone”

In GSM on June 19, 2007 at 8:53 am

I heard about this on the radio today: a “silent ringtone” which apparantly only the under 30’s can hear. It’s supposed to sound like a very high pitched phone ringing noise (personally, I can’t hear the phone ringing, but I can hear an awful high pitched noise!).

This “ringtone” is used as a deterrent to unwanted youth presence in places such as car parks and shopping centres in the UK.

You can download and listen to it for free here:

Download the “Silent Ringtone” (MP3 Format)

I’m told this may be a good ringtone for those in school who don’t want their teachers to know they have a phone in class! Let me know what (if anything) you can hear.

Lock them up and throw away the key…

In issues on June 18, 2007 at 11:37 pm

Every so often, a subject arises which I simply must air my thoughts about. This may not be something you wish to hear about, and I do apologise for any upset I may cause. But I have to write this post because this evening I saw a news article on TV which upset me so deeply I fear I may have nightmares about it.

The story was in fact good news: an international paedophile ring has been cracked: over 100 arrests have been made in the UK alone, and over 700 suspects worldwide. Over 30 children in the UK have been saved from abuse.

Children as young as a few months old.

This is what distresses me most of all.

Just a few words spoken by the spokesman for the Police paedophile unit, just a hint of what had been found on the “Son of God’s” website, was enough to make me feel utterly sick. It brought me to tears.

As far as I’m concerned, these “animals” are the scum of the earth. In fact, they don’t even deserve to be called animals, for no other living creature would perform such atrocities on their young. In recent weeks, we’ve heard news about voluntary “castration drugs” which could be offered to convicted paedophiles. Why stop at “voluntary”, and even “drugs”?

I hate to write about such a terrible subject. More so, I feel disgusted that such things happen in our world. Yet when I was watching the news feature, I couldn’t switch it over. Like watching a horror film, I had to see it through to the end, to find the happy ending, to know that there are people who fight such atrocious crimes and bring those guilty to justice:

“I’m absolutely delighted with the sentence. He [the coordinator of the ring] could be imprisoned for a very, very long time,” said Michele Elliott, founder of the child protection charity Kidscape. “I am delighted that police forces in 35 countries have come together to ensure that kids are a little bit safer on the Internet.” (Turkishpress.com)

Though thankfully, my family and I have never been victims of such atrocities, I feel so grateful to the CEOP and other agencies for helping keep our kids safe. Let’s hope that these arrests serve as true deterrent.

Please feel free to leave your comments below.

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Netmums: a really great site for UK based mums!

In just for fun, kids on June 17, 2007 at 9:39 pm

Netmums.co.uk is a parenting site I visit regularly as it is a truly wonderful resource for UK mums! As well as parenting tips, advice for children of all ages, recipes, information and more, there are local forums you can access for help, info and advice on issues in your area. Or simply just to chat and meet other mums!

Why not pop on over and see for yourself? I’m sure you’ll agree this is probably the best UK based parenting site yet!

Happy Fathers Day!

In keeping him happy on June 17, 2007 at 7:47 pm
Wishing a very happy Fathers Day to all great Dads around the world!

My Dad and little angel, taken September 2005

Here’s my Dad with little angel, taken about a year and a half ago (it’s one of my favorite photos of him!). Love you Dad!

And here’s another of Hubby Dearest, sleeping off a hard day’s work on our new patio…

… with all our love, from me and all the kids!

Want your kids to behave? Maybe Derren Brown can help…

In kids, observations on June 16, 2007 at 5:59 pm

Before you get worried, I’m not suggesting that you hypnotise your little angels in order to teach them good behaviour! This is something I came across a few weeks ago, discovered that it seems to work, and thought I’d share with you other mums and dads who may be interested too.

On Derren Brown’s website, I came across a section about the power of suggestion (for those of you unfamiliar with Derren Brown, he is a “magician” of sorts, mostly interested in psychology and misdirection, and very entertaining!). Derren explains that all suggestions to a person’s behaviour should be positive in order to be successful: negative suggestions simply do not work on the subconscious mind.

IE: if I were to say “Don’t think about butterflies”, what would be the first insect which popped into your head? On the other hand, if I were to say “Think about bumble bees” instead, you would probably not think of butterflies at all.

Are you with me so far?

Well, going on from this, my thoughts strayed to the kids, and how they almost always do the opposite of what I say to them. Especially Little Angel! When I say “don’t touch that!”, she invariably does so anyway. Highly frustrating! So I decided to do a little experiment: as often as I could remember to do so, I changed the phrases I use when chastising the kids, some examples being:
  • Instead of “don’t touch that”, try “leave it alone”
  • Rather than “don’t go into the busy road”, I’d say “stay on the pavement”.

I made a mental note each time as to whether or not it worked. I didn’t expect it to, kids being kids and all, but you know what? It worked more often then not. Which is a big difference, considering my “suggestions” previously had caused such endless frustration at the lack of accomplishment!

So perhaps kids are more susceptible to the power of suggestion than we adults feel we are. Any more childcare tips Derren?

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Cats and dogs..? Oh my, the floods!

In observations on June 15, 2007 at 2:18 pm

As the old saying goes: “it’s raining cats and dogs today!” Truly, I’ve never known weather like this! Here in Sheffield, we’re usually protected from bad floods because our city is built on seven hills. Yet today, so very many roads are flooded, schools are closed and many many homes have been evacuated due to immense flooding.

The photo above was taken a few hours ago, and the rain has not stopped since. You really wouldn’t believe that just last week we were all wading around in shorts complaining that it was too hot!

In a few moments, I need to collect my little man from school. I do hope I manage to battle the traffic and get there safely!
Edit: I think most people have finally got the message about the flooding: we went to school and back through hardly any traffic or floods whatsoever. I’m so relieved that my family are all safe after reading stories of the elderly whisked out of their homes and drivers stranded in giant “puddles” having to wade through rivers which were once roads. I do hope things clear up soon! If things are so bad here in Sheffield, then I dread to imagine how bad they must be on lower land areas of the country…

Want to lose weight but can’t stand the gym? Read on…

In health on June 14, 2007 at 7:37 pm

Literally speaking, that is!

Scientists have recently discovered that reading a racy novel can increase your metabolic rate and help you burn more calories:

On average, we burn around one calorie per minute when sitting still, but reading encourages the production of adrenaline, causing BMR to rise to up to 1.75 calories per minute, say the researchers, commissioned by book store Borders. (DailyMail.co.uk)

Could this really be true: substituting a trip to the gym for a mammoth reading session? Sounds too good to be true, but certainly rather interesting. What do you think?

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All change in the realm of education…

In kids on June 14, 2007 at 1:53 pm

This term will be the last my son spends at his current school. In just a few weeks he’ll be eleven, and “big school” looms in the autumn term…

Thankfully, he’s quite excited about the experience. Unlike me, who is dreading the transition from “child” to “teenager”, and all the extra responsibilities he’ll have to deal with as a “young adult”.

As we moved from one part of town to another, he won’t be attending the same school as all of his friends, and I’m more than a little anxious that this will affect him more deeply than he believes. At the moment, he gets such a lot of support from his peers, in terms of his education as well as lasting friendship. You see, my son has never been a star of the school system. I wouldn’t say by any means that he’s not intelligent! No, he’s very bright, imaginative and intelligent in his personal way. It’s just that he doesn’t fit the model of an average school child.

I’d hate for him to ever believe that he is in any way inadequate; far from it! The things he excels at are just different from the norm: his imagination is fabulous, he creates stories and imagery no-one else could even dream of. And absolutely no-one could ever beat him at computer games. Yet I’m anxious that such feelings may develop when he begins life at his new school: young students can be so ruthless in their approval of others.

Knowing my son, he’ll quell my fears the minute he begins attendence: he’s such a charmer, and these past couple of years he’s made such leaps in his educational achievements. I can’t help wondering if his little sister has had a lot to do with this: he loves her so much, and has really matured since she was born; he’s more settled now, better natured and more willing to learn. We really have a son to be proud of here!

On the same hand, we decided it was time to enrol our little angel in nursery school, and today went to visit “Little Rascals”. Wow, she loved it there: loads more children to play with; dressing up; painting and toys! Oh, she loved the toys!

Hubby was very happy with the nursery and decided to enrol her straight away. Mind you, it will cost us quite a bit as it’s a private nursery, so I insisted we begin with only one session per week to see how it goes.

Next week for the first session, I think I’m going to be more upset that she is: for the past two years, she’s been with me constantly: I’m hardly going to know what to do with myself if she’s away for a whole morning each week! Today she would have waved us off and played merily for the day if we hadn’t dragged her away from the play dough!

Much change is ahead for both my little angels, and though they grow they will still always be babies to me.

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This is why i look forward to the school holidays

In Uncategorized on June 13, 2007 at 3:22 pm


This is why i look forward to the school holidays
Originally uploaded by AmandaFaz.

The photo is of the road next to my son’s school. As you can see, there are dozens of cars parked on the road. And this is actually 30 minutes before home time! Seriously, the traffic around here is awful. I’d love to be able to walk to school (as i’m sure most of these car owners could) but we live 4 miles away and it would take up hours to do so. Ah well, i made the choice to keep my son in this great school when we moved house, so i ought to put up with an hour’s worth of traffic each morning and afternoon for the privelage. But with the traffic getting worse by the week, i can’t help looking forward to the holidays!

Ooh, look what i got in the the post today!

In freebies, glamumous on June 12, 2007 at 9:04 pm

Quite a while back, I posted about my love of designer cosmetics, and how i rarely say full price for them. Well here’s proof: a free, gratis Chanel lipstick which landed in my mailbox this morning. It really is worth signing up to mailing lists for your favorite brands, which is how I managed to blag this lovely lippie. It certainly made my day!

I think the promotion may have ended now, but you can still sign up for the Chanel email newsletter and receive other freebies/product updates using this link. Also, if you visit your local Chanel counter, you can ask to be included in the mailing list, and will be able to collect a little bag of sample skincare and make-up every couple of months.

See, designer cosmetics don’t always have the designer price tag to match!

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Tasty Tuesdays Recipe: Tunisian Brik

In tasty tuesdays on June 12, 2007 at 8:24 pm

Brik is certainly one of my favorite Tunisian snacks! They’re made from spring roll pastry, filled and fried in oil. Unfortunately, not a very healthy snack, though I’m sure you’ll agree they’re delicious and certainly go down well with the kids! We usually eat these when breaking fast during Ramadan (okay, I admit I don’t fast with Hubby dearest, but I do still enjoy our evening meals during this time); though you can buy brik all year round from vendors in Tunisian streets.

Here’s what you’ll need to make around 8:

  • A pack of spring roll pastry (look in the freezer department of your supermarket, or try local Arab food shops)
  • A medium sized potato, peeled and chopped into small chunks
  • A small can of tuna, drained
  • 4 Medium eggs
  • About 2 dessert spoons of chopped fresh parsley
  • 2 dessert spoons of grated cheddar/parmesan cheese
  • A dash of salt and pepper
  • Oil for shallow frying
  • Lemons to serve

And here’s how to make these delicious treats:

  1. Defrost at least 8 spring roll slices (perhaps add a couple more in case you tear them accidentally since they are rather thin!). This should only take about an hour; less if you can seperate them.
  2. Boil the potato chunks in slightly salted water until tender. Drain and leave to cool for a little while then mash lightly with a fork.
  3. In a mixing bowl, break the eggs and mix. Add the parsley, drained tuna, cheese and the mashed potatoes. Mix well.
  4. In a large frying pan, pour enough oil so that it’s at least 1cm deep and heat gently.
  5. Now, take one of the spring roll slices (careful, they’re easily broken!) and gently fold into a triangle across the middle to make the brik shape. Then reopen and spoon a tablespoon of the mixture into the centre of the triangle. Quickly wet the edges of the apastry to seal it together. Hold it by the corner opposite the long side and transfer to the frying pan.
  6. Brown the pastry in the oil, then flip over to brown the other side, ensuring the egg in the centre is cooked. Drain on kitchen paper while you cook the rest. Once you get confident, you can cook 2 or 3 at a time.
  7. Serve hot with freshly squeezed lemon juice on them.

Most Tunisians prefer the eggs to be broken on top of the other ingredients, and served so that the yolk is still runny when eaten. However, I prefer my method, as I hate the thought that the egg white may still be runny in places too (there have been so many times when I’ve had to abandon a brik because this has put me off!). An alternative to the lemon juice squeezed over the brik is to serve with spoonfuls of chopped boiled onions. Trust me, it’s delicious!

Next week, I’ll be posting my final Tunisian recipe: my version of Koucha, which is traditionally a small lamb roasted with vegetables and tomatoes in a stone oven. But don’t worry, you won’t need a whole lamb or an old fashioned cooker for this one! It’s much easier the way I make it, and is probably my husband’s favorite dish.

For more tasty Tunisian recipes, have a look at these previous posts:

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How big is your carbon footprint?

In issues on June 11, 2007 at 7:50 pm

After the recent TV advertisements about CO2 emissions, I decided to try and work out just how big our family’s carbon footprint is. Despite the recent shock at the costs of our gas and electricity bills, I’m pleased to say that our family’s footprint is slightly below the UK average: 7612kg per person, compared to the UK average of 10963kg. Hopefully our recent clampdown on the cost of bills will help to reduce this even more.

I also made an interesting discovery: BioDiesel.

Biodiesel is a fuel that can be used in any diesel powered vehicle. It is
biodegradable and non-toxic. Biodiesel is a fantastic way of reducing your
carbon footprint as it only releases the carbon dioxide that the plants absorbed
whilst growing, therefore there is no negative impact on the carbon cycle.

Mum actually mentioned a while ago that her friend had set up a Biodiesel distribution company; cheap, clean fuel I can use in my car without having to make any modifications to the engine. Now that I know more about it, I’d certainly like to give it a try. It’s a pity Biodiesel isn’t sold in petrol stations yet…

For more information about your CO2 emissions, or to work out your family’s carbon footprint, try these links:

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Dreading my dyskaryosis treatment…

In health, me time on June 11, 2007 at 11:30 am

After a smear test recently, I discovered that I have severe dyskaryosis of trhe cervix. I have to admit that I cried when I first read the letter from the hospital. I’d expected my smear test results to come back all clear, believing I was too young to have cancer or anything like that. And being rather uneducated in the field of “women troubles”, I feared the worst.

Thankfully, my GP, the staff at the hospital, my father and the internet all managed to convince me that it isn’t cancer: it’s actually an abnormality of my cervix which could one day become cancer if not treated. Meaning ten to fifteen years from now. Thank God!

Yet I am still anxious. I need to go for treatment, which involved having the abnormal cells scraped off using a process called diathermy. I know it’s nothing particularly serious: I’ll be in and out of the out-patients’ department in less than an hour; after effects will include only period pains and bleeding for a couple of weeks. However, I hate the thoughts of having to spread my legs again in front of a room of strangers (as I did during my colposcopy a couple of weeks back); I’m worried that the poroblem may not go away; I’m worried about being ill when the kids need me to be super mommy.

But at the end of the day, I’m so happy that the problem isn’t cancer or any other serious abnormality. My problem can be treated quickly and easily; I shouldn’t worry about it, I’ll be fine. I know I will, deep down.

I just wish this anxiety would go away…

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Dull women have immaculate homes…

In house and home, just for fun on June 9, 2007 at 6:32 pm

Or so I like to believe! Phyllis Diller also said that “Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing.”

So very true!

There are loads of great quotes about housework over at Quote Garden. I’m off to read some more to help me cheep up before I tackle the mess of my bathroom…

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Baby blues and man flu!

In health, keeping him happy, kids, observations on June 7, 2007 at 11:23 am

Little Angel seems much better now after her visit to the doctor yesterday. It seems I was mistaken in thinking that she would blame me for her suffering. No, she blamed the doctor, and now appears to hate him with a vengeance! She didn’t scream but watched intently (while I had to look away) sobbing “I no likey medsinn, no likey doctor! No more medsinn!” A lollipop later and she was merely limping and sobbing quietly, demanding to be cuddled while we walked back to the car.

My little man was upset with me though. He’d overheard that little Angel was going for her injection and was cross that I’d put her through such an ordeal! He even let her play on his Nintendo (his most prized possession) to “help make her feel better”.

It makes me feel so happy that my children love each other so much! Of course, things were back to normal within an hour, when they began to tease and argue again…

Hubby dearest appears to have “man flu”. That is, he has what we women would call a common cold. For men, it seems a simple cold is blown out of all proportion and requires many cuddles, Lemsips on the hour, back rubs, sumptuous suppers and much TLC. Poor love, he’d be off work for a week, but unfortunately his partner’s away on holiday in the Mediterranean sun and he has to run the shop single-handedly for a while. But I still love him to pieces! Last night, he told me that a husband can truly understand how much he loves and appreciates his wife when he is ill. I could have hugged him for hours!

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Uh-oh!

In health, kids on June 6, 2007 at 11:29 am


Uh-oh!
Originally uploaded by
AmandaFaz.

In a few minutes i need to take my little angel to see the doctor for her (overdue) jabs. Really dreading this. I low exactly what she’s going to do: scream and run! And then blame me. I wish i could make her understand…

Tasty Tuesdays: Tunisian Fricassee

In tasty tuesdays on June 5, 2007 at 4:01 pm


Tunisian fricassee is a “fast-food” style snack that is often sold in the streets. It could be described as a fried sandwich (so unfortunately, these should really only be served as a special treat), but I almost died of culinary delight the first time I was given one! However, it isn’t an easy dish to make, and does require some patience as you wait for the dough to rise. I’m sure you’ll love them as much as I do once you try one.

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • Plain flour (about 200g)
  • Dried yeast (the type you’d use to make bread)
  • A spoonful of sugar (to help the yeast make the dough rise)
  • Cold water
  • Tin of tuna
  • Two medium potatoes, peeled and chopped into small cubes
  • Red and/or green peppers
  • Mayonnaise and/or chili paste
  • Sunflower oil for deep frying
  • A couple of hard boiled eggs
  • Black pitted olives
  • Salt and pepper

Here’s what to do:

  1. Firstly you need to prepare dough in the same way as you would if you were making bread. The method may differ depending on the type of yeast you are using, so if in doubt, refer to the bread making instructions found on the packet of yeast! Here’s what I do (and please bear in mind that I don’t use a measuring jug or scales: I’ve gotten good at making fricassee now!). In a large mixing bowl, I put 14 heaped dessert spoons of plain flour. In a small bowl, I mix 1 tbsp of dried yeast granules, 1 tbsp of granulated sugar and a little water then leave until it froths. This mixture is then added to the flour with a little salt and mixed thoroughly, adding more water as necessary until it forms a thick dough which comes away from the sides of the bowl.
  2. Leave the dough to rise for at least an hour until it has doubled in size. I put mine in a warn place, covered with a tea-towel and a saucepan lid to help the process along.
  3. While you’re waiting for the dough, peel the potatoes and chop into very small cubes (about 1-2 cm) and boil in slightly salted water until cooked (IE: they slide off a fork when you try to skewer them).
  4. De-seed the pepper(s) and chop finely into very small cubes. Do the same with half a cucumber if you like this in salads too.
  5. Heat your oil to a very high temperature. I use a chip-frying pan for this as it seems the safest option. To check if the oil is hot enough, drop a cube of bread into the oil: it should become a crisp crouton in no less than 4 seconds!
  6. Hopefully by now your dough will have risen to twice its size. You’ll need to knead it thoroughly again and ensure it is of a good consistency (it should bounce back into shape if you push your finger in).
  7. Sprinkle some flour on your work surface, and pull out a handful of the dough. Roll into a ball shape, and then squish into a flat oblong shape about 1/2 to 1cm thick. Gently place this into the hot oil and watch it rise into the shape of a small rugby ball. It will rise to the surface of the oil, so when the submerged side browns, flip it over to brown the other side (this usually takes a couple of minutes), then scoop out with a slotted spoon and place in a bowl lined with absorbent kitchen towels to blot excess oil.
  8. This first fricassee will most likely be the worst of the batch, so only fry one alone at first. When this is cooked, you could try 2/3 at a time, being careful to watch they don’t burn!
  9. Once you’ve used all of your dough (the mixture should make around 12), leave them to cool a little while you get your fillings together. Then slice them open at one side.
  10. Fricassee fillings greatly depend on your tastes: in Tunisia, they are “buttered” with Harissa (a very hot regional chili paste) and filled with tuna, cooked potatoes and salad. I prefer to forgo the harissa and use mayonnaise instead, along with potatoes, tuna, peppers and cucumber.
  11. Top with slices of hard boiled eggs and black olives, sit back and enjoy!

Whilst Tunisian fricassee are best eaten warm, they are still rather tasty when cooled and are great for lunchboxes and picnics (though they only really keep for a day in the fridge before going soggy). Experiment with different fillings, such as cooked chicken, traditional salads and eggs to discover new tastes and styles. Any way I’m sure you’ll enjoy them!

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Are we wrapping our kids in cotton wool?

In issues, kids, observations on June 5, 2007 at 10:33 am

This morning, the BBC news brought an important issue to light: are we too protective of our children?

When I was the same age as my son, I was allowed to roam freely, so long as I was back home to check in with Mum at the times she said. My friends and I used to make dens in the woods, walk to the next village to buy sweets from our favorite shop; go to the best park which was almost a mile away. So long as my parents knew where I was and what time I would be home, they were happy to let me play. And to think I used to complain that they were being overprotective…

But I wouldn’t dream of letting my son go that far alone. He’s almost eleven, and the furthest I let him walk alone is to his friend’s house, just a little way down the street. Even if his school was closer to home than it is (currently 4 miles away, but that’s another story!), I doubt I would let him travel to school without an adult accompanying him. In fact, only 9% of primary school children are allowed to walk to school alone these days, compared to 80% in 1970.

I can only reason that parents like myself and hubby dearest are much more conscious of the dangers their children face these days. It seems almost daily that we hear of children who are hurt in car accidents, abused or even abducted, as in the case of Madelaine McCann. A few years ago, I heard about a young girl who suffered a violent sexual assault just a few metres away from her parents in a local park. My children have not played there since.

Yet, there are many reasons we should feel reassured about the safety of our children: our children’s schools are now safer than ever; there are wardens assigned to our city parks, and many organisations dedicated to the support and well being of our younger generations. Yesterday I had a rather reassuring conversation with a regular patron of my husband’s shop: the gentleman worked for the paedophile unit of our local police division:

“It must be an awful job to be in,” I remarked. I imagined all the terrible things he must be exposed to in his work.

“Far from it,” he explained. “It’s the most rewarding job I could ever have. Making sure this type of person is off the streets and away from our children gives me a great sense of satisfaction. Even helping just one child makes a difference.”

Indeed it does. Despite all the worries I have about our modern society, I am so happy to know there are people like him in the world, and relieved to know things are being done to keep our young ones safe.

Gone are the days when we could let our children play happily in the streets and know they were safe. My son starts secondary school this September, and I imagine he’ll want to travel to school alone. In so many ways, I wish I could wrap him in cotton wool forever…

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Use pot pourri bags to make your sofa smell sweet

In freebies, house and home on June 4, 2007 at 1:45 pm

Over the weekend, I made use of some old muslin squares (previously used when burping little Angel!) by sewing together and filling with pot pourri. I then tied them with some pretty ribbon left over from Christmas wrapping. They cost me next to nothing to make; in fact I’m quite proud of my handiwork (especially as I sewed them by hand!).

One trick I’ve learnt is to hide one under the seat cushions on the sofa; whenever anyone sits down, a waft of the lovely scented pot pourri is released to help make your lounge smell sweet! I also hung some in the wardrobes so our clothes smell nice too.

Why not give it a try yourself if you have any unused fabric lying around the house?

It had to be done…

In house and home on June 2, 2007 at 12:36 pm

It had to be done…
Originally uploaded by
AmandaFaz.

After all that indecision, i decided that I’d at least strip the bathroom walls. Much hard work and shredded fingers! Now the preparation has been done, the actual decoration shouldn’t be too bad. But as you probably know already, wherever there are children around, even the simplest of jobs can easily become a nightmare!

The Teletubby Scandal

In issues on June 1, 2007 at 6:50 pm

I almost choked when my friend called to tell me that the colourful BBC show, Teletubbies, was being investigated, and could possibly be banned!

“Whatever for?” I asked.

“Well, apparantly, the purple one is a bit gay,” she replied.

“Well, yes: Tinky Winky is rather camp!” I can surely forgive her for overreacting, since she’s pregnant with her first little angel and has never seen the show herself. Not to mention the emotional hormones flying around. But a scandal about Teletubbies? I had to find out for myself what the furore was about.

Apparently, Poland have been investigating the show after Ewa Sowinska , a campaigner for children’s rights, had asked for psychologists to review the show since it promoted homosexuality. However, Parliamentary Speaker Ludwig Dorn has warned Sowinska against making comments “that may turn her department into a laughing stock.”

Here’s a link to the full story: http://www.cbc.ca/arts/tv/story/2007/05/29/teletubbies-poland-tv.html

In my opinion, there is very little in this world that could be deemed more innocent than the Teletubbies! And after seeing various clips of verbal innuendo from the previously popular preschool show, Rainbow, I know what I prefer my daughter to watch!

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Bathroom opinions please!

In house and home on June 1, 2007 at 5:03 pm

Hubby dearest has been trying for months to put me off redecorating the bathroom, saying that it won’t be long before the Council come to modernise it, along with our falling-down kitchen (we rent from our local council at the moment). This was supposed to happen in July/August this year. We even delayed booking our holidays to ensure we’d be home to choose the new decor they’d install for us.

But now we’ve discovered it’s going to be next year when they finally get around to our house. Which makes me rather frustrated, since almost 80% of the other houses on our street have had their renovations completed in full: new driveways, brand new kitchen and bathroom (including re plastering and decoration); electrical rewires; new gas boiler; new windows and doors.

We’ve just had the doors and windows installed. I have no idea how long we’ll have to wait for the rest.

Anyway, enough of my rants. I would like your opinions on something…

I’ve always thought that a home’s bathroom is one of the most important rooms to be well decorated, be clean and tidy, and generally nice. Hubby dearest completely disagrees. He truly doesn’t care what the bathroom looks like, so long as there’s hot water for a shower and clean towels somewhere.

What do you think?

I ask this because I simply cannot wait another year or so for the council to redecorate our bathroom. I HATE IT! The grubby ancient wallpaper is stuck on in patches, three layers thick in places, and completely comes away from the wall where the damp from the leaking toilet set in. There’s no storage, the linoleum is torn and scratched… It won’t cost much to get it looking better, just a little time and elbow grease; a lick of paint and some shelves. Hopefully some new flooring too. But then, I’d have to decide between redecorating the bathroom or buying a new wardrobe to match the furniture in our bedroom. At least for a few months while we save up again.

So, if you have any ideas for me I’d really appreciate it!

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It makes motherhood worthwhile!

In kids, me time on May 30, 2007 at 6:03 pm

I should have known it was going to be one of those days today as soon as I woke up and realised I’d overslept. But, like any other day, I was cheerful in the hopeful anticipation of a nice, pleasant day. Little did I know what fate had in store for me…

Within an hour of waking, Little Angel had almost wrecked the place. It started with her somehow getting hold of my favorite Dior nail varnish and attempting to paint the carpet. The kids swore it must have been a ghost-no-one would ever give her my most expensive cosmetics to play with.

Apparently.

While I was cleaning up the mess, she then decided to climb up and pull the shampoo from the shelves where I’d thought it would be safe. Then she proceeded to throw toilet paper across the landing. And so on, and so forth.

Until it gets to the point where I really honestly think for a moment that I’m going to lose it completely, and she comes back in from the garden with a wilting daisy in her hand. “Sorry mummy, luv ooh!”

Sweetness personified. It’s moments like this that make being a mum worthwhile!

Tasty Tuesdays: Easy Peasy Tunisian Salad

In tasty tuesdays on May 29, 2007 at 3:03 pm

Tunisian style salad is really easy to prepare and makes a tasty side-dish for any meal. It’s usually eaten with a spoon (as the vegetables are finely chopped for this dish), but can also be eaten with bread: a traditional Tunisian method of eating!

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • Half a cucumber
  • About 2 mewdium (or one large) tomatoes
  • Small red onion
  • Capsicum peppers (1/2 each red and green)
  • Olive oil
  • Lemon juice

To decorate:

  • Black olives
  • Boiled eggs
  • Fresh parsley
  • A few lettuce leaves

Here’s how to make your Tunisian style salad:

  1. Get yourself a large mixing bowl.
  2. Finely chop the onion and add to the dish.
  3. To finely chop the cucumber, here’s a little trick: get a sharp knife and make slices about 1/2 a centimetre wide across the pale flesh of the halved cucumber (towards the base). Make sure you don’t cut theough: you want these slices to stay on for the time being! Turn the cucumber round 90 degrees and do the same again, like a cross hatch design. Then cut through the green skin as though you are making slices: the small chunks should come off perfectly! Once you’ve chopped all of the cucumber, add this to the bowl.
  4. To chop the tomatoes, cut into quarters and remove the flesh (set to one side). Then chop the more solid parts as fine as you did the cucumber. Add this and the squishy parts to the bowl.
  5. Finely chop the peppers; add these too.
  6. Add a sprinkle of salt and pepper, a drizzle of olive oil and about 2 tablespoons of lemon juice to the bowl. Mix well and taste. Add more seasoning/olive oil/lemon juice to suit your taste.
  7. Serve in a large salad bowl on a bed of lettuce leaves. Add black olives, slices of hard boiled eggs and sprinkle with a handful of chopped fresh parsley.
  8. Enjoy!

I hope you enjoy this easy recipe, which is something we enjoy regularly at home. More Tunisian recipe ideas next week!

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Little green fingers

In house and home, kids, me time on May 27, 2007 at 1:05 pm

Exactly one year ago, we moved to this “new house” and were blessed with a front door on the ground floor, lovely neighbours and most of all, a huge garden space for the kids!

For over ten years, we’d been living in a first floor flat. Sure it was roomy and in a nice part of town, but with the kids it was hardly desirable. Especially when Hubby dearest and I married and my step-children began to stay each weekend. When little Angel came along, it was almost unbearable. There was nowhere safe for the children to play; no green space to admire, and certainly no area to sit out in the sun in the summertime.

I’m so glad to be here!

Last summer was something of a frenzy and we barely had time to relax and enjoy our new home. Between decorating, clearing the jungle in the back garden and our two-month trip to Tunisia, there was barely any time to cultivate a garden. This year, we’ve had more time to enjoy the outdoor space: we had the garden turfed, created a space for plants and installed a fence to keep prying eyes away from our precious ones. We even bought a sand pit and playhouse for the kids. And for the first time in my life I’ve been able to grow things from seeds. I feel so proud of what we’ve achieved!

What I love most is the change I’ve seen in the children: they all seem so much happier, even on rainy days like today. And they’re developing a wonderful interest in plants and the environment; especially my little man, who today insisted we go to the garden centre so he could buy a plant with his pocket money!

I thought he would have chosen a Venus fly trap, which he could feed with the ever increasing number of huge spiders that plague our lounge. Luckily, the garden centre didn’t have any in stock. I say “lucky” because I can’t stand that he picks them up and lets them run all over him! It’s not that I’m scared of spiders: I just have a strange fear of them crawling on my feet…

Anyway, he settles on a seedling cucumber plant, and little Angel insisted she got in on the action by nursing a cherry tomato plant back to the car. It was so sweet watching them water their little seedlings, and give them pride of place on the kitchen windowsill “because mummy, it’s too wet for them to be outside just now!”

In this last year, I’ve seen my little seedlings blossom and flourish. I love to watch them grow…

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"Green" cleaning can really save you money!

In house and home on May 26, 2007 at 6:00 pm

These days we’re bombarded with advertisements for the latest (and supposedly, greatest) cleaning products on the market: washing up liquids, laminate floor cleaner, toilet limescale remover… The list is endless!

What such adverts fail to tell you is that there are essentially five natural ingredients you can use to keep you entire home clean and bright. Much better for your purse strings, and better for the environment too! So I present to you my list of five essential natural cleaning products, which can save you pounds on your monthly cleaning bill, and make you feel so much better that you’re helping to save the planet by using them:

  1. White vinegar: a natural disinfectant and cleaner; can be used to make windows and glass shine! Reduces mineral and lime deposits, and can be used to treat stains.
  2. Lemons: traditionally used for cutting through grease; also great as a deodoriser and fragrancer.
  3. Olive oil: a wonderful alternative to furniture polish (see Tracy’s post for a great example).
  4. Bicarbonate of soda: when mixed with water, this forms an alkaline solution which is great for all round cleaning (such as surfaces, fridges, floors, etc). Use neat as a scourer with a kitchen sponge, or form a thick paste for stubborn stains. Combine with vinegar for an extra strength cleaning solution.
  5. Borax: a great disinfectant. Dilute in water to replace your usual disinfectant for mopping or cleaning nasty messes. Can also be used to clean toilets, clear drains and as an insecticide.

And here’s some examples of how these essential ingredients can be used for all your cleaning needs:

All purpose cleaners:

  • Dissolve 4 tablespoons of bicarbonate of soda in 1 litre of water for an all purpose cleaning fluid.
  • Add a few slices of lemon for a pleasantly fragranced washing-up solution
  • Mix to a paste with water and a few drops of vinegar for really stubborn stains or burnt pans.

Disinfectants:

  • Mix half a cup of borax with five litres of hot water and clean with this solution (be sure to wear rubber gloves as borax is quite strong and can harm your delicate hands!). For a fragranced disinfectant, add some of your favorite herbs, steep for five minutes and strain; alternatively fragrance with a few drops of your favorite essential oils.
  • 2 tablespoons of borax, lemon juice and 2 cups of hot water can be combined to make a great antibacterial surface cleaner; decant into a spray bottle and use like a regular disinfectant spray (much cheaper than branded chemical solutions!

Glass cleaning:

  • Equal parts vinegar and water in a spray bottle make a great window cleaning solution (use more vinegar if your windows are really dirty). Buff to a shine with crumpled newspaper.
  • Alternatively, use 1/2 a cup of lemon juice and two cups of water, and apply as before.

Toilet cleaner:

  • Flush the toilet to wet the bowl, and sprinkle with bicarbonate of soda. Spray on vinegar and leave overnight for best results and scrub with a toilet brush to clean and deodorise your loo. For stubborn stains, leave the solution overnight before scrubbing, to make it gleam!

Drain cleaner:

  • Pour 1/2 to 1 cup of bicarbonate of soda down the drain, followed by 1 cup of vinegar. Leave to foam for a few minutes, then flush with boiling hot water. Does exactly the same as expensive drain cleaning solutions!

These are just a few of the ways you can clean your home using inexpensive, natural products. For more ideas, take a look at these hints and recipes.

All of these ingredients are cheap to buy, and could be purchased from your local supermarket (try a hardware store if you have trouble sourcing borax). You can also purchase great value natural cleaning products online from Soap Kitchen Online.

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Do it yourself day!

In house and home, me time on May 25, 2007 at 12:16 am

I’m feeling rather proud of myself tonight; albeit exhausted, with hands that ache so much I’m barely able to type!

Whenever Hubby Dearest goes abroad without me, I set myself a plan of household tasks to do before his return. Often it’s something simple, like painting the windowsills and hanging new curtains (my initial plan for this week). Other times, I get some mammoth task in my head that I simply have to do. Like today, for example…

Quite unexpectedly, our new kitchen table arrived. We hadn’t even got rid of the old one to make room for it. Darned delivery men, they should have called to let me know. And unloading great ugly boxes into my freshly cleaned kitchen was like waving a red flag to a bull!

So, I dismantled the old table and chairs, fixed up the new ones, stepped back and admired the view. But then I remembered the other box lurking in the shed: the cabinet for the lounge that Hubby dearest has been planning to build for nigh on six months, “as soon as I can find someone to take the fish tank off our hands” (which is another great ugly unwanted piece of furniture, taking up space in the house).

Of course, I checked the instructions first. And you know what I found? A great big picture of a woman symbol (the kind you’d find on a lavatory door to discern the ladies’ from the gents’) WITH A LINE THROUGH IT! As though it were trying to say that a woman should not try to assemble this alone! Beneath was a picture of two women symbols and an “okay” tick. But really! Do the manufacturers seriously think that women can’t assemble flat-pack alone?

I was planning to scan that manual to show the world that chauvinistic imagery, but unfortunately little angel spilled juice all over it. All that work, and kids/cooking/cleaning/washing/bath time/story/etc done too.

Hope hubby feels sufficiently guilty when he arrives back to see my efforts!

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Now what..?

In kids, observations on May 23, 2007 at 12:14 pm

My little man’s not quite so little anymore… In July he’ll be eleven. Almost a teenager! As much as I love to watch his development, I often wish children would stay children forever. Like yesterday, for instance.

Here’s the gist of the conversation we had:

“Tidy your room up please; it’s bedtime soon.”

“I’ll do it in a bit.”

“No, tidy it now. It’s bedtime soon!”

“No, I’ll do it later. You can’t control me…”

Meanwhile, he was in the process of tidying up his awful boy-mess. But for the first time, he had me stumped! I sense the approach of difficult teenage-hood approaching. Does that mean “you can’t control me” will become a regular saying?

Oh dear. And I’d hoped that the threat of being grounded/losing pocket money/confiscating the computer would suffice until he was much, much older. Don’t misunderstand me: he’s a great kid, and I’m quite proud of how well-behaved he is compared to other kids I know.

My old neighbour’s son, for instance. He’s a couple of years older than my son, and it seems his mum has simply lost control. He doesn’t go to school, because he simply walks out; he swears at everyone; he smokes… When the lack of parental respect breaks down, what methods of discipline can you employ, except to bind and gag them? (only joking, of course!)

At the end of the day, he’ll always be my “little man”. I only hope I will always be the “Mum” he respects.

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Tasty Tuesday Recipe: Tunisian Tagine

In tasty tuesdays on May 22, 2007 at 9:03 pm

So, here’s my first recipe of the “Tasty Tuesdays” series: Tunisian tagine with tuna, parsley and cheese. This is a really simple dish which you could use as a starter or accompaniment to a main meal. It’s also nice for the kids to snack on!

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • Six medium eggs
  • A small can of tuna chunks, drained
  • A handful of fresh parsley, chopped
  • Grated mild cheese (enough to fill a small teacup)
  • A medium sized potato, peeled and cut into small squares (about 1.5 cm wide)
  • One small onion, finely chopped
  • A drop of milk
  • Oil for greasing
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • Small ceramic/earthenware roasting tray (or a casserole dish, if you don’t have the roasting dish).
  • (Optional): a lemon to garnish

Here’s how to make it:

  1. Heat your oven to a high temperature (about 220 degrees centigrade)
  2. Boil the potato in salted water for a few minutes until they’re almost cooked. Drain and cool.
  3. Break the eggs into a large mixing bowl and beat together. Add the drained tuna, cooled potatoes, parsley, cheese, chopped onion, a drop of milk (to make sure the mixture isn’t too thick!) and seasonings to suit your taste.
  4. Grease the roasting dish with the oil, then pour in the mixture ensuring everything is evenly spaced.
  5. When the oven gets hot (it really does need to be hot for the tagine to rise!), put the roaster/dish into the oven on the top shelf. Cook for around 20-25 minutes until the eggs are set and the top is slightly golden.
  6. Remove from the oven, cut into squares and serve with slices of lemon. Yum!

You can change some of the ingredients to suit your tastes. For example, you could replace the tuna with cooked chicken; use spring onions, or replace the meat with small pieces of char grilled red and green peppers for a vegetarian treat!

Hope you enjoy this recipe! More from Tunisia next week…

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Tasty Tuesdays!

In tasty tuesdays on May 22, 2007 at 10:50 am

When I cook (which is virtually everyday!), I like things to be simple, and still taste delicious! I learnt the hard way that food cooked from fresh ingredients tastes so much better than frozen/prepacked/convenience foods from the supermarket. And I say “the hard way” because I truly didn’t know how to cook when I first set up home!

With the help of my husband (who incidentally was a restaurant chef for some years!), various magazine recipes and books, I finally learnt how to prepare something tasty from scratch, often with very cheap ingredients too!

So, I present to you “Tasty Tuesdays”: my weekly recipe section where you needn’t worry too much about having weighing scales, measuring jugs, or the expertise of Delia Smith! My recipes are tried and tested on the most discerning palates (hubby darling and fussy kids), but have always come up trumps!

In honour of my Tunisian husband, I’ll begin with a series of tasty Tunisian recipes, which are really delicious and can be adapted to suit any taste. I hope you’ll enjoy them as much as we do at home!

More on this subject later…

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Is this going to be a problem..?

In kids on May 21, 2007 at 10:20 pm

Adorable as she is, my little angel seems to be quite addicted to her soothers (or “do-do’s”, as they are called in our house!).

I’m dreading the day she has to give them up and become a “big girl”… Which may not be too far away now as she really needs to give them up before she begins nursery school. This wasn’t an issue with my son: he never took a liking to them, and so I was never faced with that awful parent guilt of having to take them away!

Ah well, there’s still time for her to give them up willingly…

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Store cupboard staples: a list of essentials you should never be without

In house and home, tasty tuesdays on May 20, 2007 at 12:04 pm

After reading Tracy’s article about the freedom of household routines, I remembered a great tip from Marguerite Duras: keeping a list of store cupboard essentials.

This is something I’ve done for a while now. On our fridge we stuck a list of all the kitchen essentials we can’t do without, and tick things off as they need replenishing. That way we never run out of household essentials. There are loads of meals and uses for these items, so even if an unexpected guest arrives, we always have something to cook for them, and have the essentials for keeping things clean.

Here are the basics we list:

  • Salt
  • Pepper
  • Harrisa (Tunisian chili paste)
  • Mayonnaise
  • Milk
  • Tea and coffee
  • Sugar
  • Eggs
  • Butter
  • Hard cheese
  • Potatoes
  • Pasta
  • Tinned tomatoes
  • Tomato puree
  • Tinned tuna
  • Onions
  • Garlic
  • Flour
  • Bread
  • Olive oil
  • Olives
  • Lemons
  • Vinegar
  • Good quality chocolate
  • Wine
  • Toilet paper
  • Light bulbs
  • Washing powder
  • Kitchen sponges with scouring pads (Spontex)
  • Fuses
  • Heavy duty tape (gaffer tape)

With these things kept in stock, we’re never caught out. These pantry essentials are also very cheap to buy in bulk, which is great for households on a budget! Lemons, vinegar and cheap washing powder suffice for most household cleaning tasks: vinegar and soapy water for windows, powder and lemons for cleaning dishes, surfaces and floors; lemons for chopping boards (see this post for more ideas). With the food I’ve listed, it’s even possible to create an impromptu three course meal for unexpected guests:

  1. For starters, spoon some harrissa and mayonnaise on a plate; drizzle in olive oil and serve with flakes of tuna, olives and slices of french bread for dipping.
  2. For the main course, a dish of pasta and home made tomato sauce sprinkled with grated cheese, or an omelet served with potato wedges and flavored with the cheese.
  3. Chocolate and coffee for desserts, or if you have the time you can make a cake with these basic ingredients, flavored with the zest of a lemon.

The good quality chocolate and wine can also be gifts for your guests. Toilet paper is undoubtedly essential for any household, and you’d be surprised how useful strong tape can be!

Of course, our list won’t suit every household, but you can always adapt your list to your personal needs. It’s a very useful thing to do, and with such basic store cupboard essentials you know you’ll never be thrown off guard again! In the near future, I’ll also be posting some tasty Tunisian recipes, many of which use these store cupboard essentials with only a few other ingredients.

Please leave your comments if you have useful lists you use for better organisation in your home: I love to read hints and tips about better organising my home.

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Which "Desperate Housewife" are you?

In just for fun, me time on May 19, 2007 at 11:14 am

Have you ever wondered which of the Wisteria Lane ladies you are like the most? Here’s a fun quiz to find out:

Which Desperate Housewife are you?

Apparently I’m most like Bree…

Which housewife are you?

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Save money on your amenity bills (and be more environmentally friendly!)

In house and home on May 18, 2007 at 4:56 pm

Hubby was rather wild when we received the electric bill a few weeks ago. He wasn’t impressed yesterday when we had the gas bill…

“We always use more heating/lighting/gas for the cooker/etc in winter,” I tried to explain. But still, our monthly payments have increased by more than 100%.

It’s time to cut down on our use of these facilities. So I’ve been reading up lots about how to use less energy in the home. Not only does this cut down on bills, but it also helps the environment as we use less fossil fuels! So here’s a few of the best tips I’ve found. I hope they help you reduce your costs and environment bill too:

  • Use low energy light bulbs. Many companies offer these for free to help reduce the cost to the environment. We were actually given a pack for free by our local housing authority; you can also buy packs of 2-3 from “Poundland” stores.
  • Turn the washing machine temperature down to 30 degrees as much as possible. You’ll save 25% of the electricity cost for heating the water, and most coloured washes are still cleaned just as well.
  • Switch off appliances at the wall plug, or unplug them altogether. Appliances such as TV’s and DVD players still use energy when on standby mode. So when not in use, make sure they’re not eating into your bills!
  • Invest in double glazing if you can. Okay, I know this is an expensive job, but you’ll really notice a difference. Our old apartment had double glazing, and it cost so much less to keep warm than it did at our new house (until we had the new windows installed). In the long run, you’ll save a lot of money!
  • Draftproof your home: letterboxes, ill fitting doors and windows can all become more efficient by installing draft-proof fuzzy tape. Many local authorities in the UK will do this as a free service (or very cheaply) if you make an application; in many cases, this includes cavity wall and water heater installation.
  • Invest in a washing line and some pegs! Tumble dryers use up so much electricity to get clothes dry. I’ve barely used mine at all these past few weeks. In fact, only once because it rained solid for three days…

When I discover some more tips I’ll be sure to post them here. In the meantime, you should also check out these websites for more information on reducing your bills/making your home a more environmentally friendly place:

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Cell phone envy…

In kids, me time on May 18, 2007 at 4:45 pm

I know. I’m a grown up. I shouldn’t be jealous of my husbands new, super-duper, fabulous computer-with-camera-and-video-and-mp3-and-all-the-trimmings that he calls a phone.

But I am. I want one too!

The problem is that these things cost so much, and my current contract doesn’t run out for a good few months yet. So I’m stuck, waiting and wanting one so bad! The things I could do with a device like that… I could finally learn to take great photos; make a video diary of the kids; blog better by phone; check my email while on the school run…

Times like this, I wish I could be reckless again!

To make matters worse, the kids have all asked for mobile phones for their birthdays. Of course, they can’t have something as advanced and grown up as hubby’s N95, but still… Are they still too young to have that sort of responsibility?

Their argument is this: “everyone else at school has got one!”. I’m sure most mums have heard this story before, as we did to our own parents when we were little. My son will be eleven in July, and the twins will be eight in August. I think they’re all too young to be responsible for a mobile phone, and no doubt hubby and I will suffer endless requests for pre-pay top-ups. Unfortunately hubby thinks otherwise.

Should I try to change his mind?

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We’ve got the contractors in…

In house and home, me time on May 17, 2007 at 8:31 pm

I’m so tired today.

We’ve had our old decaying windows replaced with shiny new PVC, double glazed and child-proofed ones. Which is great. Except that the contractors were so late to arrive and couldn’t finish the job. And left a huge, awful dirty mess…

I’ve finally managed to get the bulk of it cleaned up, though I’m reluctant to make it sparkling as I know the same is going to happen tomorrow when they come to fit the new doors.

I just want to relax and groan. I ache all over. But now the kids need their bath and I have to wash my son’s school uniform ready for the morning and wash my hair because it’s matted with dirt.

In a couple of months, we’ll also be having the kitchen and bathroom renovated too. It could take a month (or more) to complete those jobs! Life with a husband and kids can be hard enough as it is. But more mess..? I shudder at the thought…

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How I persuade my kids to eat vegetables

In kids, tasty tuesdays on May 16, 2007 at 12:56 pm

Eat your greens!

I’m a lucky mum: my kids are great eaters! They eat veg and fruit with every meal, and snacks usually comprise of apples, grapes and (for my youngest) olives. But it hasn’t always been this way…

My son (now ten) was a very fussy eater. At one time, he would only eat bland foods, chips and pizza. No sauces, and virtually no greens. Trying to persuade him to eat vegetables made mealtimes hell.

Slowly but surely, my husband and I managed to help him change his ways. It was no quick or easy task, I assure you. But eventually it worked! Here’s a few of the things we did:

  • Eat as a family: if you and the kids all eat the same meals together, they’ll be encouraged to try the same foods as you.
  • Encourage the kids to try new foods, but don’t try to force feed them or it will make things worse. Eventually, you’ll learn which vegetables are considered “edible”, so work with it! If your child decides they like peas, try mixing them with corn next time.
  • Hide vegetables in sauces they enjoy. My son liked tomato sauce on pasta, so sometimes I’d puree carrots and mix this in with the sauce. The strength of the tomato made it barely noticable.
  • Always have healthy snacks within easy reach. Apples, carrot sticks, cucumber and the like make great snacks between meals, which can come in very handy when the kids arrive home from school claiming they’re starving! If these are readily available (and sweets/crisps are not), this could well be a way to persuade them!

When we visit our family in Tunisia, I notoce a vastly different approach to mealtimes from what we are used to. Tunisian families always eat together, and rather than have a plate each, food is served in larger “communal” dishes which the family all share. My nephews and nieces eat virtually everything put before them, even really spicy foods and salads: they learnt from quite an early age that if they don’t eat what’s on the table, their older brothers and sisters will! This isn’t an approach we’ve adopted at home, but it’s an interesting method!

For some great meal ideas for kids, visit Kelly’s Kids Dish blog. Kelly has also created a weekly feature called As easy as abc Monday” in which she shares healthy and child friendly recipies for food groups from each letter of the alphabet (A is for apple, B is for broccoli, etc…). There’s some tasty treats in store on her excellent blog!

I’d also love to hear about any other veg-success stories (or otherwise!) from other mums. Please leave your comments and stories below.

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Mommy Bloggers are taking over the world…

In Blogging on May 16, 2007 at 10:15 am

Though I’ve blogged extensively for over two years now, I’m a relative savvy to the mommy blogger community! It was actually only a few weeks ago that i read my first “Mommy Blog” and thought: hey, this is what I really want to do. I certainly didn’t realise how big this community was…

There are some really great mommy blogs out there, and quite a few which I now read everyday. Check out my blogroll on the right for some of my favorites. You can find loads of quality mommy blogs at BlogHer.com, and also on the excellent TheMomBlogs.com.

Then there is the site I found today…

Guy Kawasaki’s blog, How to Change the World, was certainly not a blog where I would have expected to find a comprehensive list of great Mommy Blogs to peruse. I’ve certainly come across his blog before while working on my other site. But thankfully he’s addressed the issue of men blogging about the world of women:

There is a contingent of readers of my blog who do not like when I write about blogs/blogging/bloggers. I’d guess there’s also a contingent who do not like when I write about non-business, non-tech, non-male subjects. To these readers, I say in advance: “You can never support a mom, much less a mommy blogger, too much, so deal with it.”

Great words, Guy! Thanks for supporting the mums of the blogging world!

You can read his full list of Mommy Blogs on this post. I’m off to check out some more…

The Carnival of SAHMs (Stay at Home Mums)

In Blogging on May 15, 2007 at 11:25 pm

Summer’s blog, Wired for Noise features a great regular feature called The Carnival of Sahms. Here you can read some great blog posts about SAHMs (stay at home mums) and the issues which concern us.

This month, the carnival features a post from here at Glamumous! Be sure to check out Summer’s blog for some great posts and articles (Thanks for the add, Summer!)

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The Bean Jar Theory…

In keeping him happy, love life on May 15, 2007 at 10:28 am

...candy or beans?
I just read a really interesting post on Tertia’s blog about “the bean jar married sex theory”. Here’s the basics of it:

When you meet someone new, someone you think you might end up getting serious about, go out and get yourself a jar and a big packet of beans. Then, every time you shag, put one of the beans in the jar. Carry on doing that until you get married.

After your wedding night and once you are back from your honeymoon, take that full jar of beans out again. From then on, remove a single bean for each time you have sex with your partner. You’ll never empty that jar again.

How true is that? It’s too late for me to try this experiment now (we’ve been married for three years), but I certainly doubt we would have come close to emptying that jar of beans. Long-term commitment certainly seems to put a damper on your love life, especially where babies are involved…

Even so, I’d love to hear success stories from those who have kept the light of their love life burning fiercely in spite of passion-dampeners (ie: kids), marital issues and time!

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Madeleine McCann, still missing after 11 days

In issues, kids on May 14, 2007 at 5:06 pm

Most likely, you will have heard the tragic news of Madeleine McCann’s dissapearance on May 3rd from a holiday apartment in Portugal. It has now been eleven days since her parents last saw that beautiful little face. Though I am not a religious person, I pray for her safety, and I pray that no parent ever has to go through such an ordeal again.

It seems that little Madeleine, who would have celebrated her fourth birthday only a few days ago, was snatched from a holiday apartment, where she and her twin sisters were sleeping while her parents were dining in a nearby restaurant. Massive rewards have been offered for information leading to her safe return, and huge web-campaigns have been set up on the Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre and the Virtual Global Taskforce (VGT) websites.

While I may have my opinion on the behaviour of little Madeleine’s parents (as I’m sure many of you do), all that concerns me is that the poor child is returned safely to her parents’ loving arms. It breaks my heart to think of poor Madeleine, frightened and desperate to see her family again.

If you or anyone you know have any information please call Portuguese Police direct on 00351 282 405 400 or call Crimestoppers in the UK on 0800 555 111.

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Happy Mothers’ Day!

In glamumous on May 13, 2007 at 2:28 pm

Here in the UK, Mothering Sunday is the second Sunday of Lent. But I would like to wish all you mums in the United States and elsewhere in the world a very happy Mothers’ Day! You all deserve it!

Above is a video sent to me by Marie of Mommy Community.com. Thank you Marie! I hope you all enjoy her lovely video.

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How I set up my Blogger custom domain

In custom blogger on May 12, 2007 at 4:14 pm

I used GoDaddy to register my domain name, as this company seemed the cheapest dot.com domain provider, and also because they supply a free email address and basic hosting account with each domain, which has come in rather handy.

However, I’d read quite a few complaints about using GoDaddy for custom domains with Blogger hosting, so I was rather careful to make sure I did everything correctly!

Please do note that you can only link your site as http://yoursite.com or http://www.yoursite.com. Not both. It just doesn’t work that way. My advice is to use the www prefix, and if you can make a simple redirect page in your host root, as I’ll explain later

I followed Blogger’s advice to the letter, and everything works fine. Here are the basics of their tutorial, or you can read the whole thing yourself on this page.

  1. Buy your chosen domain name and create your account.
  2. Once your domain has been registered, log in to your control panel, and choose to “manage domains”.
  3. Click on the area marked Total DNS Control, and then on Total DNS Control And MX Records.
  4. Look for a record prefixed “WWW”. If there isn’t one, add a new CNAME record; if there is one, you’ll need to edit this record instead.
  5. Insert these settings exactly as they are described! For the “Name” type “www” (as in www.yoursite.com). For the Host Name, you need to enter “ghs.google.com“. Don’t change or enter anything else except for these two functions. If this is a new CNAME, click “add”. If you are editing an existing CNAME, click “update” and “continue”.

Before you link this domain to your Blogspot blog, you may well want to check that all the settings are correct. To do this, you’ll need to “ping” your new domain and ensure the host points to ghs.google.com.

If you’re a Windows user, this is quite simple to do using the “command” feature. Windows 98 and ME have a “command prompt” program in the start menu; Windows XP has the “run…” feature, which brings up a box; simply type in CMD, hit enter and you’ll get your command prompt.

Then all you need to do is enter the following:

ping www.yourdomainname.com

substituting yourdomain.com for your domain name and suffix. Hit enter, and see what happens. It should look something like this:

Pinging ghs.1.google.com [72.14.207.121] with 32 bytes of data:
Reply from 72.14.207.121:
bytes=32 time=85ms TTL=247
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Notice that the ping recognises that my site is hosted with ghs.1.google.com. This means that I can (and indeed, have) followed the next step in telling Blogspot my new domain name. If you don’t notice the host is registered as Google, wait a little longer before following the next step.

Log in to your Blogger control panel. In the settings section, click on the publishing tab. Near the top of this page, you’ll notice “publish to a custom domain”. This is what you want to do.

When prompted, enter the domain name you have directed to the ghs.google.com host, including the www prefix! Continue, and you should see that your new settings have been saved.

View your blog to ensure everything works and looks okay. Don’t worry if at first you get a “404 file not found” page: it can take a few days for DNS settings to propogate across the whole internet. You can always switch back to Blogspot hosting and try again in a day or two. When this does work okay, you’ll see your blog exactly how it is normally seen, with the exception that your new domain name is in the address bar. Blogger takes care of all the inter-blog links, page titles and such for you, and even redirects traffic from your old name.blogspot.com address to your new www.yoursite.com address! This is great as it means it’s unlikely you’ll lose traffic or page ranking stats.

Now here’s the awkward part: as I mentioned earlier, you can only have http://www.yourblog.com or http://yourblog.com. Not both. Blogger/Google simply haven’t recognised that this may be important, and only offer the function of linking one address to your blog. But in a strange way, this is good: you don’t have to worry about having two seperate blogs listed in Technorati, for example.

I advised that you use the www prefix for a good reason. Many domain providers offer a single page (often called a “holding page”) with each domain name. This will show when you type http://yourblog.com, even though www.yourblog.com will link to your Blogger blog.

So make use of it!

If you are able to edit the HTML, you could create a redirect page to automatically redirect visitors to your www address. That way, you won’t lose any visitors at all. To make the page redirect to your www address, you need to insert this code between the head tags, substituting “mysite.com” for your domain name. You can do this using an HTML editor (I prefer Notepad).

<head><meta http-equiv=”refresh” content=”0; url=http://www.mysite.com” /></head>

The part content=”0; means that there is no pause before the browser is redirected. You can change this to “5″ for example, to give a 5 second pause if you also want to include an explanation for the redirect in the body of the page. It is also a good idea to include a hyperlink to your www address in the body of the page, just in case the visitor’s browser doesn’t recognise the redirect command.

If you look at my redirect page at http://glamumous.com, you’ll notice that there is an 8 second pause and an explanation for the redirect. Play around and see what works for you!

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The perfect pair of jeans…

In glamumous on May 12, 2007 at 4:13 pm

I must be awkward. As much as I love jeans, I have the greatest trouble in finding a pair that fits well. They’re either too big on the waist, or are way too tight on the hips, making me walk like a cardboard cowboy… On the odd occasion that I have found a great pair of jeans, they’re too expensive!

What’s a girl to do?

Thankfully, help is at hand! Thanks to TheMommyBlog, I encountered the great Zafu Jeans Finder. It’s perfect! All you have to do is answer a few questions about your body shape, style preferences and the like, and they find results for the best pair of jeans to suit you and your shape. Really, it works! Best of all, they search hundreds of brands in order to find prices and styles to suit any budget. I found a pair of designer jeans in exactly the style and colour I love for only £15! I couldn’t believe my luck!

What’s more, you can always find the jeans you like, then go to your nearest outlet to try them for yourself before commiting to a sale online (I did this earlier today to check the accuracy of the jeans finder). And guess what? Zafu was right: the Levis I tried fit like a dream! But I’ll buy therm online instead as the price was much better…

Give it a try and let me know what you think!

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Glamumous.com now up and running!

In Uncategorized on May 12, 2007 at 12:59 pm

Glamumous.com is now up and running (almost) fine!

The only restriction is that you need to enter www.glamumous.com to get to my blog. This is due to Blogger restrictions on associating the custom domain to either http:// or www. You can’t have both (which is quite unfortunate).

However, I have set up a page at http://glamumous.com to redirect people to the www address, and ensure no-one gets lost! I’ll post about this later. In the meantime…

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Parent and child parking: why is it being abused?

In issues on May 11, 2007 at 12:43 pm

Abuse of parent and child parking spaces is one of my pet hates. In fact, it often infuriates me that people with no children deliberately park in these spaces, ensuring that struggling parents with crying babies, buggies and arms full of shopping have to struggle across the car park.

A few weeks ago, I spotted an empty parent and child space in the local shopping centre’s car park. Just as I was manouvering to drive in, a white transit van nipped in instead. I was slightly miffed to say the least, but when I saw a single guy step out in worker’s overalls, no child in sight, I was infuriated:

“Hey, I was just about to park there!”
“So what? I got there first!”
“It’s a parent and child space. I don’t see any kids with you. So move your van.”
“No! There’s no law against me parking here, is there?”

As luck had it, a parking attendent overheard our “conversation” and told the guy he’d better move if he didn’t want to get a ticket for “obstructive parking”. That’s right: “obstructive parking” not “abuse of parent and child facilities”! Still, I felt better that his behavious had been corrected.

Here in the UK, those who abuse disabled parking facilities are fined when caught. However, those who abuse parent and child allocations are not. I personally feel it is about time this changed.

… Soon to be Glamumous.com!

In custom blogger on May 11, 2007 at 12:28 am

In the next few days, the address for Glamumous will change from glamumous.blogspot.com to glamumous.com!

I’ve decided to buy my custom domain, and maintain Blogspot’s excellent free hosting. An added bonus is that glamumous.blogspot.com will automatically redirect to the new address. I also have a new email address: amanda at glamumous.com!

Great, eh?

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Calling all UK "Mommy Bloggers"!

In Blogging on May 10, 2007 at 10:24 am

To me, it seems as though blogging hasn’t taken off in the UK as much as elsewhere in the world. I’d love to read more Mommy Blogs by mums who are based in the UK, perhaps share stories and links.

So if you’re a mommy blogging from our small islands, please get in touch! Leave your comments or send me an email: I’d love to read more about you!

My new blog header

In custom blogger on May 9, 2007 at 12:42 pm

Last night, I finally got around to customising my blog header, which turned out to be much easier than I thought it would be!

I made the header using a combination of Publisher and Photoshop, then uploaded it to my hosting account on another server. I’m rather proud of how well the design turned out!

Then, rather then change the background image through the header widget, I read Peter Chen’s excellent tutorial and added an extra widget to the header section; this enabled me to add an extra widget (HTML/Javascript), in which I created an image link to my header enclosed in link tags to the Glamumous home page.

After much tweaking of the header-wrapper/background images and the like, I finally have the (almost) finished design you see now. Please leave your comments to let me know what you think so far!

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Tackle it Tuesday

In house and home on May 8, 2007 at 12:06 pm

5minutesformom.com have a great project on their site called “Tackle it Tuesday”. They invite mums to contribute their hints and advice about tackling problem housekeeping chores (which is great for mums like me who really don’t like housework!).

Read all about it here!

Tackle It Tuesday Meme

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Free Blog Design Giveaway!

In custom blogger, freebies on May 8, 2007 at 11:51 am

Everyday Mommy is giving away a free Blogger or Typepad makeover as a Mother’s Day Giveaway! What a great idea! To be in with a chance of winning this great prize, simply leave a comment on Everyday Mommy’s post here explaining why you’d like the blog design, and including a link to your URL.

Good luck!

Great, I can post by cameraphone!

In Blogging, custom blogger, kids on May 7, 2007 at 8:11 pm


Great, I can post by cameraphone!
Originally uploaded by
AmandaFaz.

Here’s a picture of my little princess, my first post by camera phone! Thankfully, blogging by phone isn’t limited to those who live in the US! Using a flickr account you can post images straight to your Blogger blog. Thanks flickr!

To learn how to blog by cameraphone using Flickr, read this page, focusing on the “Do you have a cameraphone?” and “Do you blog?” sections.

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Using Haloscan to enable trackbacks (only) in New Blogger

In custom blogger on May 7, 2007 at 12:44 am

Trackbacks are a way of linking blogs to each other when referencing another blogger’s post. They’re quite useful and interesting to use, but unfortunately Blogger has not yet made this an inherent feature of the new Blogger software.

As an alternative, I decided to install Haloscan on my blog, to enable trackback links. So far, I’ve found Haloscan to be very useful! It has a feature where you can automatically install Haloscan comments and trackback features into your Blogger template, which is great for those who have a classic template and don’t wish to use Blogger’s comments system.

Unfortunately, I don’t fall into either category: my template is now heavily modified, and I do want to use Blogger’s comments! So I tried to install only the trackback links. Big problems there…

To cut a (very) long story short, I believe I have found the way to do this. Here’s my step by step guide to what has worked for me:

  1. Get yourself a free account with Haloscan
  2. Once you have your account (and most importantly, your username), open your Blogger dashboard, then click on Template>Edit HTML. Ensure “expand widgets” is ticked.
    Just before the closing head tag, insert this code, being sure to replace “yourhaloscanusername” with your appropriate UN:

    <script src=”http://www.haloscan.com/load/yourhaloscanusername”
    type=”text/javascript”>

  3. Then add this code where you want your Trackback link to appear, again replacing the username:

    <a class=’comment-link’
    expr:href=’”http://www.haloscan.com/tb/yourhaloscanusername/” + data:post.id +
    “/”‘ expr:onclick=’”HaloScanTB(” + “\”"+ data:post.id + “\”" + “);return
    false;”‘><script
    type=’text/javascript’>postCountTB(‘<data:post.id/>’);</script></a>

  4. I included this just after the comment link as in the following example:
    <b:if cond=’data:post.allowComments’> <a
    class=’comment-link’ expr:href=’data:post.addCommentUrl’
    expr:onclick=’data:post.addCommentOnclick’><b:if
    cond=’data:post.numComments == 1′>1
    <data:top.commentLabel/><b:else/><data:post.numComments/>
    data:top.commentLabelPlural/></b:if></a>
    </b:if> </b:if><a class=’comment-link’
    expr:href=’”http://www.haloscan.com/tb/yourhaloscanusername/”
    +
    data:post.id + “/”‘ expr:onclick=’”HaloScanTB(” + “\”"+ data:post.id + “\”"
    +
    “);return false;”‘<script
    type=’text/javascript’>postCountTB(‘<data:post.id/>’);</script></a>

  5. Preview your template first to make sure everything works okay. If it does, then save your template and begin to receive your trackbacks!

Please let me know if this modification works for you by leaving me a comment below. Happy trackbacking!

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Our Wedding Anniversary!

In keeping him happy, me time on May 5, 2007 at 1:06 pm

The happiest day of my life

Today is a doubly special day: not only is it our third wedding anniversary, it’s also my husband’s birthday!

What a wonderful time this has been so far: like all couples, we’ve had our ups and downs, but overall we’ve achieved so much together! We have a beautiful family (our youngest daughter was born within a year of us being married!); a new home which is really taking shape; a second home in Tunisia; my husband’s new business venture…

When I look back at how our lives have changed and how happy we are now, I feel so proud to call myself Mrs. Fazani :)

Disclosure Policy

In Uncategorized on May 5, 2007 at 11:23 am

This policy is valid from 13 November 2007

This blog is a personal blog written and edited by me. For questions about this blog, please contact amanda [at] glamumous.com.

This blog accepts forms of cash advertising, sponsorship, paid insertions or other forms of compensation.

The compensation received will never influence the content, topics or posts made in this blog. All advertising is in the form of advertisements generated by a third party ad network. Those advertisements will be identified as paid advertisements.

The owner(s) of this blog is compensated to provide opinion on products, services, websites and various other topics. Even though the owner(s) of this blog receives compensation for our posts or advertisements, we always give our honest opinions, findings, beliefs, or experiences on those topics or products. The views and opinions expressed on this blog are purely the bloggers’ own. Any product claim, statistic, quote or other representation about a product or service should be verified with the manufacturer, provider or party in question.

This blog does not contain any content which might present a conflict of interest.

To get your own policy, go to http://www.disclosurepolicy.org

In money on May 4, 2007 at 2:26 pm


This photo just about sums me up today. I’m really broke, and being broke makes me kind of sad. I hate having to watch each and every penny, especially when it means I have to say “no” to the kids when they ask for a cheap bag of sweets on our way back from the park.

Being “unemployed” (well, actually I’m a “home-maker”…) only serves to make me feel worse. I can’t wait to get my web-design business up and running, once I can afford to buy a new domain name and web-hosting, some stationary, advertising… So much to do, and so little time before I become baffled by this notion of skint-ness!!

At least one good thing happened today: my cheque from Google arrived several days earlier than expected; the product of some careful advertising techniques on my website/online riddle. I hope that my business venture generates as much success once I get it off the ground. I’d feel so proud of myself knowing I could make a more active contribution to the family finances again!

Before I was married, I had several years of being hard-up, budgeting every expense and trying my darndest not to go over the limits on my bank account! Now I heartily believe that this has taught me some valuable lessons about money and budgeting. So I’ll try not to be disheartened by my temporary lack of available finds, and instead will keep myself busy writing a list of the best ways to manage skint-ness which I’ll publish later this evening.

Thank goodness that blogging doesn’t cost any more than the monthly broadband charge!

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Creating a 3 column Blogger template

In custom blogger on May 3, 2007 at 5:01 pm

As you can see, my Rounders4 template now has extra sidebars to the left of the main column. This has been the most difficult, and yet most satisfying customisation I have made to my Blogger template yet!

I won’t explain every detail as this would make my post extremely long and boring, so instead I’ll just go through the basics of the process in order to give you the general idea.

  1. I copied the CSS relating to the layout of the sidebars, and made this unique by substituting “sidebar” for “left-sidebar” wherever found. So this:

    #sidebar-wrapper {width: 240px;float: left;word-wrap: break-word;overflow:
    hidden;}

    Became this:

    #left-sidebar-wrapper {width: 220px;float: left;word-wrap: break-word;overflow:
    hidden;}

    Note that I also changed the width of the sidebar wrapper, as I didn’t want it to be too wide!

  2. I then added the new sidebar to the left of the main template by ading the following lines of code just before the “main-wrapper”:
    <div id=’left-sidebar-wrapper’><b:section class=’sidebar’ id=’left-sidebar’ preferred=’yes’/></div>

  3. Finally I changed the width of the #outer-wrapper and #header-wrapper elements to include the width of the new sidebar.

After much tweaking of margins/background images/widgets and such, I finally have the template you see now. It wasn’t easy, but I think it was well worth the effort!

The only “problem” I have with this template is that things look odd when I alter the layout in my dashboard: it looks as though the right hand sidebar should be displayed underneath the main section, but it doesn’t… To make sure everything worked correctly in all browsers and screen sizes, I did check with Browsershots.org (a free and rather useful service), and everything seems perfect ion all formats I have previewed.

If you would like to use my template for your own (New) Blogger blog, please get in touch and I’ll send you the basics as XML.

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Ditch the bags and help a chartitable cause!

In charity on May 3, 2007 at 2:38 pm

Charibags in action!

At the supermarket today, I encountered a stand selling Charibags: heavy duty, reusable bags for shoppers, which not only cut down on waste from plastic carriers, but help raise funds for local children’s charities and Sheffield Children’s Hospital.

“What a wonderful idea!” I said as I snapped some up. At only a couple of pounds each, they’re great value, and most of the expense is driven straight to helping our local children.

If you live in Sheffield, snap them up at your local school/supermarket/Sheffield Children’s Hospital, and know that you’re helping local charities, as well as the environment.

You can also buy these online from Chariband.co.uk.

Edit: Glenda of the Charibags organisation has kindly replied to my email and sent me some promotional pics to post (thank you Glenda!). So now you can see the Charibags for yourself in their variety of sizes:

There is a choice of black or blue charibags in a variety of sizes including the traditional “shopper” at only £2, and the students shoulder bag is a snap at £3!

Creating a "label cloud" in the sidebar

In custom blogger on May 2, 2007 at 5:47 pm

Whatever happened to courtesy?

In issues, observations on May 2, 2007 at 10:49 am

Today I began to wonder if courtesy is slowly disappearing in our society. I like to think that I have good manners, and that in turn I have taught my children a good set of moral values. Unfortunately I cannot speak for the rest of society, and was today downright disgusted with the actions of my social “neighbours”…

On the route of my “school run”, there is a stretch of road which passes by an area of social housing for the elderly; it’s well signposted to direct drivers to be more cautious in the area as the elderly often cross this busy road on their way to the local park. As I was driving through, I saw two ladies waiting to cross the road. Suddenly, one of these ladies (who incidentally was aided by a walking frame), collapsed at the kerb.

I immediately pulled over to see if I could offer any help. But the car in front of me actually sped up, swerved around the scene and didn’t seem to pay a second thought to the welfare of the poor lady! And if that wasn’t bad enough, at least two pedestrians changed their route to avoid the scene. No “Are you alright?/Can I help?”. No courtesy whatsoever!

Thankfully, the lady wasn’t injured, though she did seem rather shaken by the incident. I helped her up, and luckily a nurse from the nearby care home (I do hope this is the correct term!) had seen the incident and offered to sit with the ladies after I gave them a lift back to their house.

This incident made me think of all the other times I have seen people ignore the “rules” of common courtesy: it seems that young people rarely give up their seats on public transport to those older than them; few drivers slow down to let others pull out of a junction. And the amount of times shop assistants have seemed so surprised when I say “thank-you” for helping me pack my bags…

I’ve always believed in the saying: “what comes around, goes around”. Perhaps people are becoming too busy in their own lives to consider how their actions and courteousness affects other people. Yet if everyone could take just a few moments from their busy schedule to do just one courteous thing for a stranger every day, I’m sure the world could become a better place to live in!

cour·te·sy n. pl. cour·te·sies
a. Polite behavior. b. A polite gesture or remark.

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White Rabbit Day (May 2007)

In white rabbit days on May 1, 2007 at 1:15 am

Happy White Rabbit Day!

You may be wondering, “what on earth is White Rabbit Day?” Well, it’s a common superstition, the most common modern version being that a person should say “rabbit, rabbit” upon waking on the first day of each new month, and on doing so will receive good luck for the remainder of that month. You can read more about White Rabbit Day here on Jennifer’s blog.

Here at Glam-Mum-Ous!, on the first day of each month, I’ll post about the month ahead: trivia, important days, and perhaps the odd seasonal recipe/household hint! White Rabbit Day posts will always feature in the “White Rabbit Days” category, as well as any others they may be linked to.

So, here’s my first White Rabbit Day post of the year, for the beautiful, spring month of May:

Important dates

  • 1st: May Day
  • 7th: Early May Bank Holiday
  • 7th-13th: Red Cross Week
  • 12th: World Fair Trade Day
  • 17th: Ascension Day
  • 21st-25th: National Summer Walk to School Week
  • 25th: Friendship Friday!
  • 27th: Pentecost/Whitsuntide (Christian festival)
  • 28th: Spring Bank Holiday

May Trivia

  • Birth Flower: Lily of the Valley
  • Birthstone: Emerald
  • May in the Northern Hemisphere is the seasonal equivalent to November in the Southern Hemisphere and vice versa.
  • The month of May is named after the Greek Goddess, Maia.

    Glamumous tips: Create a wheelbarrow garden for the kids!

    If you have an old wheelbarrow lying around, put it to good use by turning it into an entertaining wheelbarrow garden for the kids! Fill the wheelbarrow with compost, and buy a couple of cheap packets of flower seeds (the brightest and most colourful you can find!). Get the children involved in helping you prepare the “garden”, water it regularly (spray water bottles can be great fun!), and soon they’ll be fascinated as they see the flowers beginning to sprout up.

    If you decide to go on holiday during the summer, the kids can simply wheel the barrow to a neighbours to be looked after while they are away, or even just to show off their hard work ;)

    Have a great month!

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    Do yummy mums REALLY need to go to the gym?

    In glamumous, health on May 1, 2007 at 12:21 am

    Today my son put me on something of a guilt-trip. After seeing a photo of my husband and I, he declared: “that must be a really old photo mum! How old were you then?”

    “Why must it be old?” I asked.

    “Because you look so much younger on that photo, Mum! You weren’t fat then…” What?? Fat?? The photo was only taken four years ago, and surely I haven’t put on that much weight since then… Of course, my little daughter came along soon after that photo was taken, and I haven’t lost all the weight I put on with the pregnancy. And my husband swears he prefers me two dress-sizes larger than when we forst met. “You look more feminine now,” he tells me. “You were far too skinny before.”

    Yet still, it made me think. Children do have the uncanny ability to blurt out the truth, being too young to have learnt the art of tact. I have bulges now which weren’t there before. But strangely enough, I do prefer my new shape! I have hips now, so my waist looks thinner (even though it isn’t!), and curves where I once sprouted fried eggs… I only wish I could believe that husbands are allowed to be honest with their wives about their figure!

    Do “yummy mums” really need to go to the gym? I think I’d prefer watching a few keep-fit dvd’s with my daughter and cutting out chocolate for a month. A much less expensive (and less daunting) prospect than slugging it out at the gym!

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    Starting a new business

    In me time on April 29, 2007 at 8:18 pm

    Today I finally decided to start up in business as a freelance web designer.

    For some time now I have been toying with the idea: web design is something I love to do, and after several (non-profit) projects, I’ve been asked by so many peoiple why I haven’t chosen to do this for a living. I’ve been a homemaker by choice for almost three years now (since my husband and I wed, in fact!), and love being at home with the children. Yet, I can’t help feeling bored at times: I need something to keep my mind sharp. And of course the extra money this could bring would be a big bonus for us all!

    So, today was decision day, and tomorrow I’ll get started. So many things to do in order to get my new business off the ground!

    I’m thinking about calling my website AF Designs (my initials, in case you were wondering). Short and simple, nothing fancy, in order to reflect my ethical standards. I really would appreciate any hints and advice along my journey to fully fledged business-dom!

    More on this project coming soon…

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    How to use lemons to help get the housework done super-fast!

    In house and home on April 28, 2007 at 9:04 pm

    My sister-in-law has a lemon tree growing in her garden, and has taught me some wonderful things you can do with lemons around the home:
    • For washing up, fill the bowl with hot water, a dash of soap-powder and half a lemon. Wash in this solution and rinse with clean water. This will clean the dishes much better than any branded washing-up liquid, and makes glass gleam!
    • Soak burnt pans in the above solution, then finish with a scouring sponge to restore them almost to new.
    • The lemon-soap solution is great for cutting grease and grime on walls and surfaces too.
    • Use half a lemon dipped in salt to clean chopping boards.
    • To make the kitchen smell wonderful, place lemon peel on a baking tray and bake in an oven heated to 180 degrees farenheight for 20 minutes.

    Please feel free to post your ideas for using lemons in the home. I love to discover new ways to use my favorite fruit!

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    "It works for me!" – Great Household Hints

    In house and home, kids on April 27, 2007 at 8:23 pm


    I found some truly great household hints, tips and tricks on the Rocks in my Dryer blog! There’s everything from keeping your car “child-proof” (or rather, clean!) to how best to cope with a tornado! The author actively encourages other bloggers to contribute to her list, and has dozens of reader contributions! So many great ideas for busy mums. I’m off to read more!!

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    Desperate Housewives

    In glamumous, issues on April 26, 2007 at 4:53 pm


    It would be nigh on impossible for me to write this blog without mentioning my favorite TV programme: Desperate Housewives!

    Here in the UK, we’re being treated to the third series of the show now, and what fun it’s been! The children now understand that they simply MUST be settled in their beds by 10pm on wednesdays, even my young daughter who insists on consistantly disturbing my evening peace with her incessant requests to watch her favorite videos/dress up as a princess/sing the scarecrow song… You know what the little ones are like!

    What I like most about the show is that the issues it deals with are applicable to all women, and not just the loved-up, rather wealthy and enviable women we see on Wisteria Lane. Loneliness, stress, naughty children, cheating husbands… In every episode, I see some aspect of my own life reflected. I’m sure that must be why the program has become such a huge transatlantic success.

    But is it to everyones taste? I don’t know! Surely there must be some women out there who absolutely hate this fabulous show. So if you hate Desperate Housewives (or even if you love it as much as I do!), please leave your comments on the show below. I’d love to hear from you :)

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    Ninja Email Encryption!

    In Anonymity, Cryptography, Tools on April 26, 2007 at 4:22 pm

    I just came across these neat programs for email and file encryption which I thought I’d share with you all:

    Chibi Ninja
    Chibi Ninja Encryption Software is a free, cross-platform email and file encryption tools can be used to send encrypted emails and encrypt files in many different languages, including English, Greek, Russian and Japanese! It was created by Kenji Kojima and can be downloaded free from the homepage.

    Let me know what you think!

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    Adding social bookmark buttons to my Blogger templates

    In Blogging, custom blogger on April 25, 2007 at 2:06 pm


    Of course I want to promote my blog! Who doesn’t? Well, after reading Seth’s guide to increasing blog traffic, I realised that “social bookmarking” is one way to help me gain more readers.

    Adding links in the sidebar of my Blogger blog was simple enough, but I also wanted to have a bookmarklet link at the end of every post, and had many troubles finding a good solution for this.

    Eventually (after much trial and error!), I found this site which has a nifty button generator and easy installation instructions for inserting the correct code into your blog template. As you can see, I now have a button at the end of my posts which links to most social-bookmarking sites, so you readers can add my posts to your favorite sites.

    If you like my posts, that is…

    Fancy doing this to your own blog posts? Then visit Add This! and create your own button. Then edit the HTML in your template (be sure to tick the “expand widget templates” box) and add the appropriate code below the div class=”‘post-footer’” line. Preview before saving to ensure everything looks okay.

    My advice is to add below the line: p class=”‘post-footer-line” as it makes things look a little neater overall! Simple, eh?

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    How to walk in high heels

    In glamumous on April 24, 2007 at 4:18 pm


    I love high heeled shoes. Always have and always will. They make me feel more feminine and do wonders to lengthen my legs!

    So I found it strange when my sister confessed that she doesn’t wear heels because she can’t walk in them…

    I learnt the art of “high heel walking” the hard way: trial and error, many blunders and sore toes! But there is a MUCH easier way to learn, which I discovered when reading Camilla Morton’s great book, How to walk in High Heels.

    Basically, what you should do first is find a fabulous pair of high heeled shoes which you adore. They should speak to you, make you feel wonderful, and beg to be worn. Make sure they don’t pinch on the toes (as when you walk in them, the pinching will become so much worse when your weight is pushed downward!).

    Once you’ve found your shoes, you should take yourself off to the supermarket. Yes, that’s right-the supermarket! It may seem a strange method, but believe me girls this will work! Find yourself a trolley (before changing into your gorgeous skyscraper heels, if necessary!), then use the trolley like a walking frame to support yourself as you walk around the store.

    Take your time and enjoy the way your heels make you feel. Notice how your bum looks more pert and your legs look so much longer now? Peruse the aisles and pretend not to notice all those admiring glances as you strut your stuff in your fabulous new shoes. By the time you’re ready to check-out, you’ll feel much more confident about walking in your new favorite footwear, prancing and skipping like you lived in these shoes forever! This is something I do when struggling with very high heels or strappy stilettos, and it really does help!

    If you’re still struggling after trying this method, you could always get started with high-heeled boots instead: the extra support on the ankle and leg make them much easier to balance in ;)

    Try it, see the results for yourself and enjoy your femininity!

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    The nit problem

    In freebies, health on April 24, 2007 at 1:11 pm

    I imagine every mum encounters “the nit problem” at least once. I say “at least” because I have made the unfortunate discovery that once the little buggers land, they are extremely difficult to be rid of!

    For nigh on three months now, we’ve been trying to get rid of them. So far, nothing has really worked, and I’ve tried everything from chemical solutions to mayonaisse and vineger rinses! It’s been a long and frustrating process.

    So, finally I’ve come to realise that the only sure-fire method will be to comb and comb every day for at least a few weeks until we can be sure they’ve all disappeared. I found a really useful website which features a “program” of combing which supposedly works, which you can read here. It involves combing the hair using a lice comb over a period of three weeks to ensure that all adult lice and hatching offspring are removed (and therefore will not return anytime soon).

    We’re currently in week two (of three) and haven’t had itchy heads for a few days now, so it seems to be doing the trick, despite being tedious and wholly annoying for the children. I do hope this method works, and will be taking no chances in the future. I’ll post again about this soon to let you know how we get on.

    Customising Blogger

    In custom blogger on April 23, 2007 at 4:45 pm

    Like many new bloggers, I have the uncontrollable urge to customise my blog to my own particular specifications in order to make my blog unique and work exactly as I want it to.

    It can’t be helped, despite my resolutions to concentrate only on Glam-Mum-Ous subjects… So for the next few weeks, I’ll blog a series of articles about what I’m doing to my Blogger template.

    At least until I’ve got it out of my system!

    I’ve started with the classic Rounders4 Blogger template, as I like the colour scheme and the segmentation of the sidebars. Here’s what I plan to do in order to evolve my template to something completely glamumous:

    1. Add a custom header
    2. Create a 3 column layout (featuring an extra sidebar on the left)
    3. Add trackback functionality
    4. Create a “label cloud”, so that my post labels are in a pretty cloud shape instead of simply a long list!
    5. Perhaps more… I’ve yet to decide what else I’d like to do!

    From this point forward, all posts related to the customisation of my blog will be featured under the label “customising blogger“. Watch this space for changes in the near future, and please leave your comments and opinions on my design as it develops.

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    My love of designer cosmetics

    In freebies, glamumous on April 22, 2007 at 9:03 pm

    I have to admit that I’m a sucker when it comes to expensive make-up. I tell myself that since I don’t wear much make-up, it’s worth splashing out a little more on something that will make me feel like a godess when I do wear it!

    Unfortunately, designer brands are not cheap. In fact, if I want to buy my favorite Chanel lippy I have to save up my make-up allowance for at least a month! Unless, I manage to get it some other way…

    My Boots Advantage card is one of the most prized pieces of plastic in my wallet. Each time I make a purchase from the chemist (nappies, baby wipes, shampoo…), I earn points to spend in store, which I usually save for weeks on end to buy myself yummy goddess treats. Like my lipsticks, for instance. Best of all, the scheme is completely free!

    Better still, the counter assistants are always helpful and make me feel well-pampered; it doesn’t matter to them that the make-up is bought with points, since they still earn their comission from the sale! And so, I come away with loads of samples too-perfume, mascaras, lipgloss. Whatever new ranges are being launched. My make-up bag is crammed with these luscious tit-bits, and for the most part, they didn’t cost me a penny!

    Now that’s a yummy treat for thrifty mums!

    Time for a change?

    In me time on April 22, 2007 at 8:06 pm

    It’s harder than I thought it would be to write this first post. I want to explain my ambitions for this blog: my directions; the kind of content to expect; my hopes and dreams. But I don’t know where to start!

    Perhaps I ought to explain a little about myself: I’m 28; a married mum of two (plus two stepchildren). At the moment I’m a homemaker, though I do what I can to earn a little “spending money” at home! I pour through the pages of Cosmo and Marie Clair, hoping to find some useful nuggets of info or some cheap wonder-product to make me feel beautiful, and have more than a handful of self-help/lifestyle books; none of which seem to hit the right spot. Why isn’t there a handbook for thrifty, glamorous mums? Perhaps I should write my own…

    Which is where my blog comes in…

    I want to write and share my ideas about being a woman, a mother and a wife. I’m not super-skinny, blessed with ravishing good looks, a cleaning fanatic (in fact, I rather dislike housework!), nor are my children the best behaved little angels in the world. Almost everything I do is to a budget. But over the years, I’ve learnt that it is possible to be happy, feel good and have fun with the children on a meagre budget.

    And so, I decided to begin this blog to share my tips, tricks and ideas with mums all over the world. One day I aspire to be a yummy mummy, and in the meantime, I’ll just keep trying. After all, we learn something new everyday!

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    All about Glamumous!

    In glamumous, me time on April 18, 2007 at 11:12 am

    Contents:

    So… What is Glamumous?

    Glamumous is my personal blog, a voyage through the realms of stay-at-home-mum-iness! You’ll find some thrifty hints and household tips, posts about issues which concern me; the quirks of parenting and the occasional personal reflection too.

    The title, Glamumous, originated with my daughter trying to sing along to to a song she heard on the radio: her little lips couldn’t quite make the word:”glamorous”! And i liked the word: to me, it means “a glamorous mum”.

    I started this blog in April 2007 (so at the moment, she’s still a baby of the blogosphere!), and I post at least daily, more often when I have more to talk about to you readers!

    Categories/Labels

    My posts are all categorised using Blogger “labels” so you can easily search through the archives for something of interest. You’ll find links to all categories in the right sidebar in the “label cloud”; the weight of the font gives you an idea of how many posts fall into each category (ie: the bigger the words, the more posts associated with this label).

    Here’s a description of the categories I use:

    • Blogging: General posts about blogging/other bloggers
    • Custom Blogger: Tutorials and explanations of the customisations I’ve made to my blog.
    • Freebies: Free stuff and offers you may find useful!
    • Glamumous: Glamour, style, fashion… All things glamumous really!
    • Health: Being and staying healthy.
    • House and Home: Housework, clutter, tips and tricks.
    • Issues: The things that bother me. Things mums like (or need) to discuss…
    • Just for fun: Occasionally I come across a little gem I love to share. You’ll find them here.
    • Keeping him happy: Come on ladies, we all know our husbands need molly-coddling!
    • Kids: They’re great, aren’t they?
    • Love life: I’m a mum for sure, but also a wife and a woman too! This section’s about love and grown up things.
    • Me time: All about Amanda (that’s me!)
    • Observations: Things I see and think about. Things that hold my interest.
    • Tasty Treats: Recipes, food and culinary delights!

    F.A.Q

    Here’s the answers to a few questions you may have about my site. If there’s anything else you’d like to know, feel free to comment or send me an email!

    Do you take all your own photos?

    Umm, no. Unfortunately I’m no whizz with the camera. Though I am learning! Some of the photos here were taken by me, though the better ones are copyright-free images sourced from Flickr and Stock Exchange. Hopefully when I get a better camera and learn the basics of good photography, I’ll be able to post only photos taken by me!

    Who designed the layout?

    The layout is based on an original Blogger theme called Rounders4. However, I’ve made some vast customisations to the layout, including the addition of a second sidebar to the left of the main column, a custom header, custom domain, label cloud, etc… You can read all about this in the custom blogger section.

    I designed the header, the “about the site” and email logos using a combination of Photoshop and Publisher. Graphic ads are all created by their relevant owners!

    Why are there ads on the site?

    Why not? I put a lot of effort into maintaining this blog, and the ads help me to get something back towards my domain costs. I’m trying to target the ads to my readers so you only see the type of ads you’re interested in; eventually it will be a mutually beneficial system.

    Why do you use Blogger?

    For me, Blogger was the right choice: I can have a custom domain and have my blog hosted for free (no need to worry too much about web space/bandwidth!); the new software is extremely customisable, and very easy to alter fonts, colour schemes and the like. Which works great for me.

    In the past I’ve blogged extensively with WordPress, which is undoubtedly a great blogging software. In order to use the full functionality though, I needed to buy my own hosting, and the templates aren’t quite as easy to customise in my opinion. Blogger works for me. In the future, I may change, but for now it’s great.

    About the author

    You probably know me from my posts as Amanda. I’m a twenty-something married mum of a ten year old boy and a toddling girl, who has weekend visits from her adorable twin stepchildren. I’m a SAHM (stay at home mum), and you’ll find me online whenever I have free time!

    I wasn’t always a SAHM though. Until hubby and I were married, I was always busy doing something. For me, college and university came a few years later than everyone else: I studied while working part time and bringing my son up alone. Never a dull moment! For some time I ran my own business, and studied web-design in my own time (which is something of a by-line these days). In some ways it’s a relief to be a housewife, but I always need to have some project or other on the go!

    My familyHubby dearest is the hunter-gatherer of our family. He runs a mobile phone shop close to our home and is always on the lookout for new ventures!We’ve been together for over five years now, and married for three of those. He’s my first and only husband and the love of my life!

    My son is currently ten, and he’s such a great kid! He loves raptors and is positively obsessed with computer games! My toddling daughter is two going on twelve! A little princess with a love of Disney, her favorite words are “what!” and “Daddy”.

    The twins are both seven: a boy and a girl each with their own unique character. They come to stay with us each weekend from Friday to Sunday; all together my kids make such a great team!

    We live in Sheffield, which is one of the largest cities in the north of England. I’ve lived here all my life, as do most of my family, and despite the city’s downfalls, it will always be home. Our house is a two bed terraced in the suburbs which we rent from the local council and will eventually buy when the renovations are complete. After moving from a cramped two-bed flat last year, I think we’re all convinced that that was the last move we’ll make for a great many years to come! And since our bedroom is so big, we’ll be able to make another room for the girls to share, if the council don’t get there first!

    Lucky me though, we also have a second home abroad! My husband is originally from Tunisia (though he lives here with us full-time!), so we built a house near his family in a town called Jemmal in Tunisia. We visit several times a year, and it’s great to have a home in such a warm and pleasant place!

    Now I’ve found that I can also blog whilst on holiday using my mobile phone, which is great! So there’s never be a dull day here at Glamumous!

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    Are you a robot?

    In General, Information, Internet on April 11, 2007 at 11:42 pm

    Most of you will be familiar with “chat-bots”, “chatterbots” and the like as may be found on AIM, chat-rooms and the like. But although I was aware of their existence, I was unaware how much they could be found online until I read this article by Jason Striegel. I’ve never been a big fan of IM and chat-rooms (a case of personal preference), but I would like to think I’d be aware if I was talking to a robot or a real life person online.

    How strange it is that people use such bots to imitate “real” conversations. Stranger still that many are unaware that they are talking to artificial intelligence…

    Since the Internet has become popular, there has of course been criticism that people spend more time talking online than having real, face-to-face conversations. And it’s probably fair to say that when talking online, be it in chat rooms, via email or on IM, our conversations are stifled and somewhat artificial. There are no “umms” and “ahs”, no pauses, no change in vocal tone and little room for genuine expression. In Striegel’s article, he discusses how he was mistaken for a bot on AIM, and that even a chat-bot failed to recognize him as a human!

    So I took the “Turing Test” on MrMind.com. And I’m starting to wish I hadn’t now… The “bot’s” responses made me realize more than ever how limited online conversation can be. If I didn’t know better, I’d say I could easily have been talking to a person! Perhaps the “LiveChat” with a supposed customer service representative wasn’t a human at all…

    Try talking to a bot with this article in mind. It may be a striking revelation…

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    Year Zero-A puzzling phenomenon…

    In Internet, Mind Games, Riddle on April 9, 2007 at 3:25 pm

    In order to help promote their latest album, Year Zero, NIN have constructed a wonderful and rather sinister online “webquest”.

    The first site to be discovered is iamtryingtobelieve.com, after highlighted letters on the latest Nine Inch Nails T-shirt were found to spell out the words “I am trying to believe”. Visit this site and you’ll find yourself immersed in the sinister world of conspircies, Parepin, Opal and missing people…
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    A sequel to The Memory Palace..?

    In Announcements, Mind Games, Riddle on April 7, 2007 at 3:25 pm

    Those of you who have followed the progress of my first online riddle, The Memory Palace will know that the final levels have now been completed and uploaded for all to play.

    Finally, more time for blogging :)

    Thanks to all of you who have played or commented on my riddle! It’s been a great learning experience, and a project I have thoroughly enjoyed.

    And the good news? There’s more to come…
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    Free online unlocking and security mastercodes on site!

    In Announcements, GSM, Tools on March 28, 2007 at 4:35 am

    Now you can unlock your Nokia handset for free here on Kunoichi.info! Also, if you hve lost/forgotten your Nokia security code, you can generate a Master Code online to get you up and running again.

    Unlock/Security Mastercodes found here

    I will post more links and tools in this section shortly. Hope you enjoy these free tools ;)

    Sorry guys….

    In Announcements on March 27, 2007 at 11:35 pm

    I apologise for my lack of posts of late. My laptop met with an unfortunate demise and I’ve been offline for a while :(
    Still, I have a few nice things to post later! Watch this space…

    A blogger’s guide to HTML

    In Blogging, Uncategorized on March 13, 2007 at 10:22 pm

    Blogs are great: they are easily customised with templates and layouts; you don’t have to input code each time you want to make an entry; even links and images are coded for you automatically!

    But there may be a time when you want to customise your blog personally: add something to the navbar; a colour-coded post; a photo album with thumbnails…

    Knowledge of some basic html coding is a very useful tool for bloggers (and even for MySpace users too!). Web design programs are fine if you like to use them, but may prove somewhat tricky when trying to adapt code to paste into a layout or post. With a bit of html, you can easily transform your blog into something unique, interesting, and even easier to use. So here’s a quick guide to HTML code and links to useful sites where you can find out more:
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    Transform your iPod into a fully functioning PC!

    In General, Information, Technology on March 2, 2007 at 3:29 pm

    Wouldn’t it be great if you could take your PC in your pocket, everywhere you go? Mojopac have designed a great software application which enables you to store everything on your PC (programs, shortcuts, documents…) on any USB device!
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    How much is your blog worth?

    In Blogging on March 1, 2007 at 3:22 pm

    I know I posted about this a while back, but unfortunately I lost that post when my ststem crashed! So here it is again: Do you know how much your blog is worth?


    My blog is worth $7,339.02.
    How much is your blog worth?

    There is a great little applet on the Business Opportunities weblog which can generate an icon for your site like the one above.

    Inspired by Tristan Louis’s research into the value of each link to Weblogs Inc, I’ve created this little applet using Technorati’s API which computes and displays your blog’s worth using the same link to dollar ratio as the AOL-Weblogs Inc deal.

    Give it a try! You might be inspired by how much your blog is worth…

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    Unlock your car using a tennis ball??

    In Information, Uncategorized on February 28, 2007 at 3:06 pm

    I found this great video on the Crooked Brains blog which shows how to recover keys locked in a car using only a tennis ball!



    The Hole – video powered by Metacafe

    It seems to work by forcing air into the lock mechanism, which in turn releases the catch within. I have to say, this doesn’t work on all cars, and obviously won’t stop an alarm going off, but it is handy for incidents of accidental key loss!

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    Bye pod? How to get back at iPod thieves

    In Information, Security, Technology on February 27, 2007 at 3:06 pm

    GadgetTrak have developed a great free service to help track down the thief if your iPod (or other USB storage device) is stolen!
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    The power of the people’s internet

    In General, Information, Internet on February 24, 2007 at 4:19 pm

    In November 2006, the UK Government launched the “e-petitions” system, which allows people to create petitions online and submit them to Downing Street without having to deliver them in person.
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    I can hardly believe it!

    In Announcements, Blogging, General on February 24, 2007 at 1:22 pm

    After checking my site stats yesterday, I was so impressed to see a big increase in page views and visitors! On Thursday, there were over 11,000 hits on my site!

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    Unlocking Nokia 6630/6680/N-Series etc.

    In GSM on February 20, 2007 at 4:50 pm

    EDIT: Some BB5/N-series handsets can now be unlocked using free software. Read the full article here!

    I’ve had many queries asking how to unlock these handsets, so after doing a bit of research I’ve decided to post what I know about it.
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    Kunoichi’s Riddle

    In Announcements, Mind Games on February 20, 2007 at 1:22 pm

    screenshot.jpgAfter enjoying online riddle games such as Zest and Dracula’s Riddle, I have decided to create my own: The Memory Palace.
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    A very brief guide to password cracking

    In Cryptography, Hacking, Security on February 19, 2007 at 12:32 pm

    We all understand the need to protect our private documents, accounts and files with strong passwords. But what can you do if you forget your pass phrase and can’t decrypt the file? Or perhaps your friend needs your expertise to crack that password for them…

    In this brief guide, I’ll explain the concepts of password cracking and point you in the direction of sites and downloads which may be of help in such situations.
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    Download free applications, games, music and more for your mobile phone

    In GSM, Information, Internet on February 17, 2007 at 11:02 am

    Mobango is the best site I have yet found for free mobile applications, games, music, videos, etc.
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    Forums Unleashed!

    In Announcements on February 13, 2007 at 12:00 am

    You can now participate in the new Urban Kunoichi Forums!

    forums_avatar1.jpgYou can discuss anything here, from the latest blog developments to online riddles and GSM enhancements.
    I thought it would be a good idea to introduce this, as I have had so many requests for information (particluarly regarding mobile phones) and believe that a forum community is a good way to handle this.
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    How to recognise a scam

    In Education, General, Information on February 12, 2007 at 4:38 pm

    It seems to me that in recent months, the number of scams around has increased dramatically. Emails promising lottery wins, letters encouraging you to participate in get rich quick schemes, and even unwanted calls. Sometimes it’s hard to recognise what is genuine from what is not…
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    Puzzlehacker online riddle

    In Hacking, Mind Games on February 12, 2007 at 12:00 am

    Puzzlehacker is a great online riddle for those of a “hacker mentality”.

    If you are familiar with NotPr0n, Zest, Dracula’s Riddle or any other online riddles, you will be familiar with the format. But this one has a twist: it encourages you to learn hacking skills as you play…
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    Blog changes

    In Announcements on February 11, 2007 at 5:50 pm

    As you’ve probably read in my previous post, I had some problems with my blog and had to make some adjustments to get everything working smoothly again.

    Unfortunately, I’ve lost all comments posted before 10/02/07, and probably most of the trackbacks too. But the good news is that most of my posts are now back online, and everything seems to be running smoothly again!

    In the next day or so, I will unveil a couple of new site features, which I’m sure will be quite interesting…

    Useful blogging/web design tools

    In Blogging, Information, Internet on February 10, 2007 at 10:31 am

    Here are some useful websites and tools I have come across while working on new projects. Perhaps they may be useful for you too!
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    Sincere apologies!

    In Announcements on February 6, 2007 at 1:12 pm

    As some of you will have noticed, I’ve been offline for a couple of months now. My home computer met with an unfortunate demise, ten to make matters worse, there was a problem with my blog’s database (hence the strange messages these past few weeks).

    But now, I’m back; I’ve fixed most of the problems, though unfortunately I’ve lost a great many posts in the process :(

    Of course, there will be some regular updates in these coming weeks, and also some new site features, which I hope to unveil this weekend. Eventually, I hope to get all lost posts back online, though as I’ll have to upload by hand, this may well take some time!

    To those of you who subscribe or visit my site for updates, I do sincerely apologise for being offline for so long! Thanks for staying with me!

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    Test post

    In Uncategorized on January 2, 2007 at 5:47 pm