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Archive for April 2007

Starting a new business

In me time on April 29, 2007 at 8:18 pm

Today I finally decided to start up in business as a freelance web designer.

For some time now I have been toying with the idea: web design is something I love to do, and after several (non-profit) projects, I’ve been asked by so many peoiple why I haven’t chosen to do this for a living. I’ve been a homemaker by choice for almost three years now (since my husband and I wed, in fact!), and love being at home with the children. Yet, I can’t help feeling bored at times: I need something to keep my mind sharp. And of course the extra money this could bring would be a big bonus for us all!

So, today was decision day, and tomorrow I’ll get started. So many things to do in order to get my new business off the ground!

I’m thinking about calling my website AF Designs (my initials, in case you were wondering). Short and simple, nothing fancy, in order to reflect my ethical standards. I really would appreciate any hints and advice along my journey to fully fledged business-dom!

More on this project coming soon…

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How to use lemons to help get the housework done super-fast!

In house and home on April 28, 2007 at 9:04 pm

My sister-in-law has a lemon tree growing in her garden, and has taught me some wonderful things you can do with lemons around the home:
  • For washing up, fill the bowl with hot water, a dash of soap-powder and half a lemon. Wash in this solution and rinse with clean water. This will clean the dishes much better than any branded washing-up liquid, and makes glass gleam!
  • Soak burnt pans in the above solution, then finish with a scouring sponge to restore them almost to new.
  • The lemon-soap solution is great for cutting grease and grime on walls and surfaces too.
  • Use half a lemon dipped in salt to clean chopping boards.
  • To make the kitchen smell wonderful, place lemon peel on a baking tray and bake in an oven heated to 180 degrees farenheight for 20 minutes.

Please feel free to post your ideas for using lemons in the home. I love to discover new ways to use my favorite fruit!

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"It works for me!" – Great Household Hints

In house and home, kids on April 27, 2007 at 8:23 pm


I found some truly great household hints, tips and tricks on the Rocks in my Dryer blog! There’s everything from keeping your car “child-proof” (or rather, clean!) to how best to cope with a tornado! The author actively encourages other bloggers to contribute to her list, and has dozens of reader contributions! So many great ideas for busy mums. I’m off to read more!!

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Desperate Housewives

In glamumous, issues on April 26, 2007 at 4:53 pm


It would be nigh on impossible for me to write this blog without mentioning my favorite TV programme: Desperate Housewives!

Here in the UK, we’re being treated to the third series of the show now, and what fun it’s been! The children now understand that they simply MUST be settled in their beds by 10pm on wednesdays, even my young daughter who insists on consistantly disturbing my evening peace with her incessant requests to watch her favorite videos/dress up as a princess/sing the scarecrow song… You know what the little ones are like!

What I like most about the show is that the issues it deals with are applicable to all women, and not just the loved-up, rather wealthy and enviable women we see on Wisteria Lane. Loneliness, stress, naughty children, cheating husbands… In every episode, I see some aspect of my own life reflected. I’m sure that must be why the program has become such a huge transatlantic success.

But is it to everyones taste? I don’t know! Surely there must be some women out there who absolutely hate this fabulous show. So if you hate Desperate Housewives (or even if you love it as much as I do!), please leave your comments on the show below. I’d love to hear from you :)

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Ninja Email Encryption!

In Anonymity, Cryptography, Tools on April 26, 2007 at 4:22 pm

I just came across these neat programs for email and file encryption which I thought I’d share with you all:

Chibi Ninja
Chibi Ninja Encryption Software is a free, cross-platform email and file encryption tools can be used to send encrypted emails and encrypt files in many different languages, including English, Greek, Russian and Japanese! It was created by Kenji Kojima and can be downloaded free from the homepage.

Let me know what you think!

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Adding social bookmark buttons to my Blogger templates

In Blogging, custom blogger on April 25, 2007 at 2:06 pm


Of course I want to promote my blog! Who doesn’t? Well, after reading Seth’s guide to increasing blog traffic, I realised that “social bookmarking” is one way to help me gain more readers.

Adding links in the sidebar of my Blogger blog was simple enough, but I also wanted to have a bookmarklet link at the end of every post, and had many troubles finding a good solution for this.

Eventually (after much trial and error!), I found this site which has a nifty button generator and easy installation instructions for inserting the correct code into your blog template. As you can see, I now have a button at the end of my posts which links to most social-bookmarking sites, so you readers can add my posts to your favorite sites.

If you like my posts, that is…

Fancy doing this to your own blog posts? Then visit Add This! and create your own button. Then edit the HTML in your template (be sure to tick the “expand widget templates” box) and add the appropriate code below the div class=”‘post-footer’” line. Preview before saving to ensure everything looks okay.

My advice is to add below the line: p class=”‘post-footer-line” as it makes things look a little neater overall! Simple, eh?

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How to walk in high heels

In glamumous on April 24, 2007 at 4:18 pm


I love high heeled shoes. Always have and always will. They make me feel more feminine and do wonders to lengthen my legs!

So I found it strange when my sister confessed that she doesn’t wear heels because she can’t walk in them…

I learnt the art of “high heel walking” the hard way: trial and error, many blunders and sore toes! But there is a MUCH easier way to learn, which I discovered when reading Camilla Morton’s great book, How to walk in High Heels.

Basically, what you should do first is find a fabulous pair of high heeled shoes which you adore. They should speak to you, make you feel wonderful, and beg to be worn. Make sure they don’t pinch on the toes (as when you walk in them, the pinching will become so much worse when your weight is pushed downward!).

Once you’ve found your shoes, you should take yourself off to the supermarket. Yes, that’s right-the supermarket! It may seem a strange method, but believe me girls this will work! Find yourself a trolley (before changing into your gorgeous skyscraper heels, if necessary!), then use the trolley like a walking frame to support yourself as you walk around the store.

Take your time and enjoy the way your heels make you feel. Notice how your bum looks more pert and your legs look so much longer now? Peruse the aisles and pretend not to notice all those admiring glances as you strut your stuff in your fabulous new shoes. By the time you’re ready to check-out, you’ll feel much more confident about walking in your new favorite footwear, prancing and skipping like you lived in these shoes forever! This is something I do when struggling with very high heels or strappy stilettos, and it really does help!

If you’re still struggling after trying this method, you could always get started with high-heeled boots instead: the extra support on the ankle and leg make them much easier to balance in ;)

Try it, see the results for yourself and enjoy your femininity!

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The nit problem

In freebies, health on April 24, 2007 at 1:11 pm

I imagine every mum encounters “the nit problem” at least once. I say “at least” because I have made the unfortunate discovery that once the little buggers land, they are extremely difficult to be rid of!

For nigh on three months now, we’ve been trying to get rid of them. So far, nothing has really worked, and I’ve tried everything from chemical solutions to mayonaisse and vineger rinses! It’s been a long and frustrating process.

So, finally I’ve come to realise that the only sure-fire method will be to comb and comb every day for at least a few weeks until we can be sure they’ve all disappeared. I found a really useful website which features a “program” of combing which supposedly works, which you can read here. It involves combing the hair using a lice comb over a period of three weeks to ensure that all adult lice and hatching offspring are removed (and therefore will not return anytime soon).

We’re currently in week two (of three) and haven’t had itchy heads for a few days now, so it seems to be doing the trick, despite being tedious and wholly annoying for the children. I do hope this method works, and will be taking no chances in the future. I’ll post again about this soon to let you know how we get on.

Customising Blogger

In custom blogger on April 23, 2007 at 4:45 pm

Like many new bloggers, I have the uncontrollable urge to customise my blog to my own particular specifications in order to make my blog unique and work exactly as I want it to.

It can’t be helped, despite my resolutions to concentrate only on Glam-Mum-Ous subjects… So for the next few weeks, I’ll blog a series of articles about what I’m doing to my Blogger template.

At least until I’ve got it out of my system!

I’ve started with the classic Rounders4 Blogger template, as I like the colour scheme and the segmentation of the sidebars. Here’s what I plan to do in order to evolve my template to something completely glamumous:

  1. Add a custom header
  2. Create a 3 column layout (featuring an extra sidebar on the left)
  3. Add trackback functionality
  4. Create a “label cloud”, so that my post labels are in a pretty cloud shape instead of simply a long list!
  5. Perhaps more… I’ve yet to decide what else I’d like to do!

From this point forward, all posts related to the customisation of my blog will be featured under the label “customising blogger“. Watch this space for changes in the near future, and please leave your comments and opinions on my design as it develops.

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My love of designer cosmetics

In freebies, glamumous on April 22, 2007 at 9:03 pm

I have to admit that I’m a sucker when it comes to expensive make-up. I tell myself that since I don’t wear much make-up, it’s worth splashing out a little more on something that will make me feel like a godess when I do wear it!

Unfortunately, designer brands are not cheap. In fact, if I want to buy my favorite Chanel lippy I have to save up my make-up allowance for at least a month! Unless, I manage to get it some other way…

My Boots Advantage card is one of the most prized pieces of plastic in my wallet. Each time I make a purchase from the chemist (nappies, baby wipes, shampoo…), I earn points to spend in store, which I usually save for weeks on end to buy myself yummy goddess treats. Like my lipsticks, for instance. Best of all, the scheme is completely free!

Better still, the counter assistants are always helpful and make me feel well-pampered; it doesn’t matter to them that the make-up is bought with points, since they still earn their comission from the sale! And so, I come away with loads of samples too-perfume, mascaras, lipgloss. Whatever new ranges are being launched. My make-up bag is crammed with these luscious tit-bits, and for the most part, they didn’t cost me a penny!

Now that’s a yummy treat for thrifty mums!

Time for a change?

In me time on April 22, 2007 at 8:06 pm

It’s harder than I thought it would be to write this first post. I want to explain my ambitions for this blog: my directions; the kind of content to expect; my hopes and dreams. But I don’t know where to start!

Perhaps I ought to explain a little about myself: I’m 28; a married mum of two (plus two stepchildren). At the moment I’m a homemaker, though I do what I can to earn a little “spending money” at home! I pour through the pages of Cosmo and Marie Clair, hoping to find some useful nuggets of info or some cheap wonder-product to make me feel beautiful, and have more than a handful of self-help/lifestyle books; none of which seem to hit the right spot. Why isn’t there a handbook for thrifty, glamorous mums? Perhaps I should write my own…

Which is where my blog comes in…

I want to write and share my ideas about being a woman, a mother and a wife. I’m not super-skinny, blessed with ravishing good looks, a cleaning fanatic (in fact, I rather dislike housework!), nor are my children the best behaved little angels in the world. Almost everything I do is to a budget. But over the years, I’ve learnt that it is possible to be happy, feel good and have fun with the children on a meagre budget.

And so, I decided to begin this blog to share my tips, tricks and ideas with mums all over the world. One day I aspire to be a yummy mummy, and in the meantime, I’ll just keep trying. After all, we learn something new everyday!

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All about Glamumous!

In glamumous, me time on April 18, 2007 at 11:12 am

Contents:

So… What is Glamumous?

Glamumous is my personal blog, a voyage through the realms of stay-at-home-mum-iness! You’ll find some thrifty hints and household tips, posts about issues which concern me; the quirks of parenting and the occasional personal reflection too.

The title, Glamumous, originated with my daughter trying to sing along to to a song she heard on the radio: her little lips couldn’t quite make the word:”glamorous”! And i liked the word: to me, it means “a glamorous mum”.

I started this blog in April 2007 (so at the moment, she’s still a baby of the blogosphere!), and I post at least daily, more often when I have more to talk about to you readers!

Categories/Labels

My posts are all categorised using Blogger “labels” so you can easily search through the archives for something of interest. You’ll find links to all categories in the right sidebar in the “label cloud”; the weight of the font gives you an idea of how many posts fall into each category (ie: the bigger the words, the more posts associated with this label).

Here’s a description of the categories I use:

  • Blogging: General posts about blogging/other bloggers
  • Custom Blogger: Tutorials and explanations of the customisations I’ve made to my blog.
  • Freebies: Free stuff and offers you may find useful!
  • Glamumous: Glamour, style, fashion… All things glamumous really!
  • Health: Being and staying healthy.
  • House and Home: Housework, clutter, tips and tricks.
  • Issues: The things that bother me. Things mums like (or need) to discuss…
  • Just for fun: Occasionally I come across a little gem I love to share. You’ll find them here.
  • Keeping him happy: Come on ladies, we all know our husbands need molly-coddling!
  • Kids: They’re great, aren’t they?
  • Love life: I’m a mum for sure, but also a wife and a woman too! This section’s about love and grown up things.
  • Me time: All about Amanda (that’s me!)
  • Observations: Things I see and think about. Things that hold my interest.
  • Tasty Treats: Recipes, food and culinary delights!

F.A.Q

Here’s the answers to a few questions you may have about my site. If there’s anything else you’d like to know, feel free to comment or send me an email!

Do you take all your own photos?

Umm, no. Unfortunately I’m no whizz with the camera. Though I am learning! Some of the photos here were taken by me, though the better ones are copyright-free images sourced from Flickr and Stock Exchange. Hopefully when I get a better camera and learn the basics of good photography, I’ll be able to post only photos taken by me!

Who designed the layout?

The layout is based on an original Blogger theme called Rounders4. However, I’ve made some vast customisations to the layout, including the addition of a second sidebar to the left of the main column, a custom header, custom domain, label cloud, etc… You can read all about this in the custom blogger section.

I designed the header, the “about the site” and email logos using a combination of Photoshop and Publisher. Graphic ads are all created by their relevant owners!

Why are there ads on the site?

Why not? I put a lot of effort into maintaining this blog, and the ads help me to get something back towards my domain costs. I’m trying to target the ads to my readers so you only see the type of ads you’re interested in; eventually it will be a mutually beneficial system.

Why do you use Blogger?

For me, Blogger was the right choice: I can have a custom domain and have my blog hosted for free (no need to worry too much about web space/bandwidth!); the new software is extremely customisable, and very easy to alter fonts, colour schemes and the like. Which works great for me.

In the past I’ve blogged extensively with WordPress, which is undoubtedly a great blogging software. In order to use the full functionality though, I needed to buy my own hosting, and the templates aren’t quite as easy to customise in my opinion. Blogger works for me. In the future, I may change, but for now it’s great.

About the author

You probably know me from my posts as Amanda. I’m a twenty-something married mum of a ten year old boy and a toddling girl, who has weekend visits from her adorable twin stepchildren. I’m a SAHM (stay at home mum), and you’ll find me online whenever I have free time!

I wasn’t always a SAHM though. Until hubby and I were married, I was always busy doing something. For me, college and university came a few years later than everyone else: I studied while working part time and bringing my son up alone. Never a dull moment! For some time I ran my own business, and studied web-design in my own time (which is something of a by-line these days). In some ways it’s a relief to be a housewife, but I always need to have some project or other on the go!

My familyHubby dearest is the hunter-gatherer of our family. He runs a mobile phone shop close to our home and is always on the lookout for new ventures!We’ve been together for over five years now, and married for three of those. He’s my first and only husband and the love of my life!

My son is currently ten, and he’s such a great kid! He loves raptors and is positively obsessed with computer games! My toddling daughter is two going on twelve! A little princess with a love of Disney, her favorite words are “what!” and “Daddy”.

The twins are both seven: a boy and a girl each with their own unique character. They come to stay with us each weekend from Friday to Sunday; all together my kids make such a great team!

We live in Sheffield, which is one of the largest cities in the north of England. I’ve lived here all my life, as do most of my family, and despite the city’s downfalls, it will always be home. Our house is a two bed terraced in the suburbs which we rent from the local council and will eventually buy when the renovations are complete. After moving from a cramped two-bed flat last year, I think we’re all convinced that that was the last move we’ll make for a great many years to come! And since our bedroom is so big, we’ll be able to make another room for the girls to share, if the council don’t get there first!

Lucky me though, we also have a second home abroad! My husband is originally from Tunisia (though he lives here with us full-time!), so we built a house near his family in a town called Jemmal in Tunisia. We visit several times a year, and it’s great to have a home in such a warm and pleasant place!

Now I’ve found that I can also blog whilst on holiday using my mobile phone, which is great! So there’s never be a dull day here at Glamumous!

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Are you a robot?

In General, Information, Internet on April 11, 2007 at 11:42 pm

Most of you will be familiar with “chat-bots”, “chatterbots” and the like as may be found on AIM, chat-rooms and the like. But although I was aware of their existence, I was unaware how much they could be found online until I read this article by Jason Striegel. I’ve never been a big fan of IM and chat-rooms (a case of personal preference), but I would like to think I’d be aware if I was talking to a robot or a real life person online.

How strange it is that people use such bots to imitate “real” conversations. Stranger still that many are unaware that they are talking to artificial intelligence…

Since the Internet has become popular, there has of course been criticism that people spend more time talking online than having real, face-to-face conversations. And it’s probably fair to say that when talking online, be it in chat rooms, via email or on IM, our conversations are stifled and somewhat artificial. There are no “umms” and “ahs”, no pauses, no change in vocal tone and little room for genuine expression. In Striegel’s article, he discusses how he was mistaken for a bot on AIM, and that even a chat-bot failed to recognize him as a human!

So I took the “Turing Test” on MrMind.com. And I’m starting to wish I hadn’t now… The “bot’s” responses made me realize more than ever how limited online conversation can be. If I didn’t know better, I’d say I could easily have been talking to a person! Perhaps the “LiveChat” with a supposed customer service representative wasn’t a human at all…

Try talking to a bot with this article in mind. It may be a striking revelation…

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Year Zero-A puzzling phenomenon…

In Internet, Mind Games, Riddle on April 9, 2007 at 3:25 pm

In order to help promote their latest album, Year Zero, NIN have constructed a wonderful and rather sinister online “webquest”.

The first site to be discovered is iamtryingtobelieve.com, after highlighted letters on the latest Nine Inch Nails T-shirt were found to spell out the words “I am trying to believe”. Visit this site and you’ll find yourself immersed in the sinister world of conspircies, Parepin, Opal and missing people…
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A sequel to The Memory Palace..?

In Announcements, Mind Games, Riddle on April 7, 2007 at 3:25 pm

Those of you who have followed the progress of my first online riddle, The Memory Palace will know that the final levels have now been completed and uploaded for all to play.

Finally, more time for blogging :)

Thanks to all of you who have played or commented on my riddle! It’s been a great learning experience, and a project I have thoroughly enjoyed.

And the good news? There’s more to come…
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